Let’s talk: Sex toys in partnered or solo play—what’s the vibe? 🤓
If you use toys during sexy time, how did you bring it up with your partner? And if you fly solo, what sparked your curiosity to explore?
Drop your vote & let’s normalize the convo!
Let's talk sex toys. ⛓️🧴
If you've ever thought, 'Should I try one?' or 'How do I even bring this up?'—this post's for you.
No weird, awkward convos-just real talk on beginner-friendly toys and how to introduce them without making it a whole dramatic event.
Let's get into it…
If you're new to toys, don't go full throttle with some industrial-level machine or massage guns. Start small, literally. Here ar...
2025-03-18 14:57:01 +0000 UTC View Post
How did I become the ‘Doc for your cock’? 🤔 My journey into men’s pelvic health & the barriers they face. Watch & weigh in!
A pelvi-rrific Patreon member recently asked how I got into men’s pelvic floor therapy. In this video, I share my journey and the challenges many men face when seeking pelvic floor therapy in a female-centric profession.
Just the other day, I received an email from a colleague in another state warning me about a gentleman who had been calli...
2025-03-17 13:47:01 +0000 UTC View PostReal talk—are we giving foreplay the attention it deserves, or just speed-running to the main event? 🤔 Foreplay isn’t just a warm-up; it is the main event. Mainstream media and movies often skip straight to intercourse, leaving out the real sizzle—playfulness, emotional connection, love, communication, and the relational dynamics that matter just as much inside and outside the bedroom. The sex you have is only as good as the effort you put into...
2025-03-14 13:07:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Let's talk VULVA ANATOMY & PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES-aka, the stuff they should’ve taught us but didn't. If your vulva's (or partner's vulva)
Let's talk VULVA ANATOMY & PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES-aka, the stuff they should’ve taught us but didn't. If your vulva's (or partner's vulva) been feeling like a drama queen (pain, tightness, weird discomfort during sex??), your pelvic floor might be the culprit. Here's a Patreon exclusive video breaking it all down- check it ou...
2025-03-13 19:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post
🛑 Stop what you’re doing… because this might be the sex ed you never got!
Most of us with vulvas were never actually taught how our bodies work when it comes to pleasure. So, let's break it down-because better knowledge = better sex (solo and partnered, yummy!). 🦪
Check out this exclusive Patreon video and let me know your thoughts in the comments!
2025-03-12 14:07:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Alright, let's talk about edging- the sexy kind, not the 'trimming your lawn' kind. If you've ever wanted to make your orgasms stronger, last longer, or just drive yourself (or your partner) wild, welcome to your new favorite trick! Edging is the art of bringing yourself-or your partner-right to the brink of orgasm... and then shift to your erotic flow to a lower gear. Yep, it's a tease, but in the best way possible. You cool down, build back up, re...
2025-03-11 14:07:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey Insiders!
Sooo...at the end of March I will sharing a vlog for my top tier subscribers and here’s a little sneak peek 👀 of what it’s about.
Things got a little spicy, and by that, I mean I was filming a live prostate massage demo, and let's just say it wasn't everyone's cup of tea 🫖 My new videographer? Absolutely nervous! Poor thing got a little queasy just at the thought of filming it, and to be honest, I was low-key amused but also very under...
2025-03-10 15:17:01 +0000 UTC View Post
International Women’s Day: A PSA for Men ⚠️
Gentleman, let’s talk women’s pleasure—because knowing the facts isn’t just attractive, it’s essential 😉
Things Every Man Should Know:
1. Foreplay isn’t optional—it’s the main event. Women take longer to become fully aroused, so slow down and enjoy the build-up.
2. The clitoris is the MVP. It has 10,000 nerve endings (double the number in the penis). Ye...
2025-03-08 14:07:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Stop & take a movement snack! 🏃♂️💦 Cat/Cow + pelvic floor = better mobility (& maybe better thrusting 😉). Try it clothed or naked!
Ok, stop what you’re doing (unless you’re driving—please keep your eyes on the road and join me later 😅) and take a movement snack with me. How else are we supposed to lubricate our joints, muscles, nerves, and—ahem—genitals?
Y’all know I’m all about functional activities, right? Well, this particular m...
2025-03-07 14:17:01 +0000 UTC View Post
I’m thrilled to bring you an exclusive, first-of-its-kind educational demonstration—a live male internal pelvic floor exam.
Hey there, amazing members!
I’m thrilled to bring you an exclusive, first-of-its-kind educational demonstration—a live internal pelvic floor examination on a male model. This session is designed to demystify the process, reduce fear and stigma, and provide valuable c...
2025-03-06 16:07:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Over the weekend, I attended the ISSWSH (International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health) Annual Conference in Atlanta, where sex therapist Laurie Mintz shared a hilarious and oh-so-relatable video during her presentation, “Helping Your Patient Overcome Diminished Desire & Difficulty Orgasming With a Partner.”
The song? It’s Business Time by Flight of the Conchords. And let me tell you—I was laughing so hard because it perfectly captures...
2025-03-05 17:07:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Since International Women’s Day is coming up…let’s talking about the bean—most of us didn't get a proper clit education.
So today, we’re updating our knowledge rolodex (do they even sell these any more? 🤣). Whether you have one, love someone who does, or are just here for the knowledge, let’s get into six facts about the clit that’ll probably blow your mind (and hopefully other things too).
1. It’s WAY Bigger...
2025-03-03 14:37:00 +0000 UTC View PostHey, amazing members!
It’s time for YOU to choose the next deep dive book session inspired by The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides.
🗓️Next book club livestream is March 20 from 5:00-5:30 PM ET
📖 Which chapter should we explore next?
Vote below, and let me know what excites your curiosity! 🗳️
2025-02-28 14:57:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Who said Valentine's Day has to be over? It’s time to spice things up with a little Intimacy Challenge Bingo! Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner, this fun printable bingo card is here to help you explore connection, pleasure, and a little bit of cheeky fun. 😉
🔹 How to Play:
✔ Download the bingo card (attached below!)
✔ Cross off each challenge as you complete it
✔ Aim for a full row, column, or go...
Is an anterior pelvic tilt causing your low back pain? Does poor posture lead to pelvic floor dysfunction? The truth might surprise you! 🤯
Is an anterior pelvic tilt causing your low back pain? Does poor posture lead to pelvic floor dysfunction? The truth might surprise you! 🤯
Is your anterior pelvic tilt causing your low back pain? Does poor posture lead to pelvic floor dysfunction? The truth might surprise you! In this video, I’m unpacking the myths and misinformation su...
2025-02-26 15:27:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Fifteen years ago, fresh out of PT school, I received this little peanut figurine as a gift. Baby PT Dr. Susie had no idea where this journey would take her. Back then, I thought I’d spend my career in more “traditional” physical therapy—never imagining that one day, I’d be endearingly called the the Peen-Queen (or Doc for My Cock). 😆
Looking back, I can’t help but feel like the universe was already giving me a little wink. The...
2025-02-25 15:27:01 +0000 UTC View Post
So, you've maybe seen it in movies, TikTok thirst traps, or that one spicy fanfic, but let's get real-choking during sex isn't just "edgy” - it’s important to know the health risks 👀 …which brings me on to today’s poll:
Are you aware of the health risks with sexual choking?
I’ll give you hint—Dementia and involuntary peeing.<...
2025-02-24 15:07:00 +0000 UTC View PostHey, sexy readers! It’s time to schedule our next Book Club Live Session for Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides—a.k.a. the ultimate guide to… well, everything you’ve ever been curious about (and maybe some things you weren’t ).
Take a moment to cast your vote for the best day and t...
2025-02-21 16:07:00 +0000 UTC View Post
🤔 Curious about what a male pelvic floor exam entails? Watch this LIVE DEMO!
Curious about what a male pelvic floor exam entails when performed by a qualified pelvic floor therapist specializing in working with individuals who have penises? In this exclusive video, I walk you through a complete external pelvic floor exam, giving you a clear understanding of what to expect during your initial visit at our practice.
A quick disclaimer: Not a...
2025-02-20 16:27:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey amazing members!
This space thrives because of all of YOU—whether you’re sharing insights, asking questions, supporting others, or simply being here to learn. Every single one of you contributes to making this community a safe, welcoming, and empowering place.
Today, I want to give a special shoutout to a few members who have been especially engaged—leaning into conversations with openness, curiosity, and generosity:
💙 R...
2025-02-19 17:07:00 +0000 UTC View Post
The thought of sharing your fantasies with your partner can be downright nerve-wracking—worries like “What if they think I’m weird?” or “What if they’re totally turned off?” tend to take over. The fear of rejection and judgment is real, and we often spiral into worst-case scenarios about how they might react. But when we finally muster up the courage to share our deepest desires, more often than not, they’re either into it too—or at least open to ...
2025-02-18 16:17:01 +0000 UTC View PostHow many of you would be down for a special livestream interview with a sex worker? 👀 Scarlett Pereira shares her experiences in her new book, Pleasure to Purpose: Based on the True Story of Sex Worker Scarlett Pereira. When she reached out to me for a collab, I immediately thought of you curiosity-thirsty members! Would you be interested in this kind of conversation? Let me know! ⬇️
2025-02-17 18:23:54 +0000 UTC View PostHey everyone! In celebration of International Women's Day, March 8th, I'm thinking of sharing two female-specific tutorials. These would be clinical, professional, and purely educational.
Here’s what I’m considering:
🔹 Female Vulva & External Pelvic Floor Muscle Mapping – A guided walkthrough of an actual assessment with a live model. This is a beneficial resource if your partner is experiencing vulvar or pelvic pa...
What another prostat-iffic book club sesh! You all came prepared and did your homework—love to see it!
I truly appreciate everyone’s curiosity and openness in exploring these sensitive topics. Can’t wait for the next one! 🔥📚
2025-02-15 15:17:01 +0000 UTC View Post
You are all loved! ❌ ⭕️
Thank you for being the BEST community a pelvic therapist could ask for. Mwuah!
2025-02-14 20:29:13 +0000 UTC View Post
To everyone who shared their most intimate experiences for the Love Letter—thank you. I know it takes courage to open up about love, sex, and deep connection, and I’m honored you trusted this space to hold your stories.
For many, reflecting and writing about these moments was therapeutic. In a world where men often hesitate to share such vulnerability, your honesty is powerful. Your voices are reshaping the conversation around intimacy, and that’s something truly amazing....
2025-02-14 16:57:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Our second book club is happening today, February 13 from 5:15-5:45 PM ET. The chapter you amazing members voted for the most is "The Prostate & Male Pelvic Underground."
➡️ Here is the link to join: https://vimeo.com/event/4850808/aa9ea12cdf To make the most of our time together, I encourage you to come ready ...
2025-02-13 16:57:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Ouch! A penis fracture is not something you want to experience—trust me. In this exclusive video, I share the riskiest sex positions. 🍌
Ouch! A penis fracture is not something you want to experience—trust me. In this exclusive video, I break down what a penis fracture is, how it happens, and which sexual positions put your erection at the highest risk (spoiler: some might surprise you! 😳).
Have you ever had a close call or experienced ...
2025-02-12 15:17:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey everyone! 👋 It’s time for another Sex Tip Tuesday, and today we’re diving into the slippery world of lube! ✨
Do you use lubricant? If so, what’s your go-to favorite? Some men have never even considered using lube during masturbation—just like how vibrators are often (wrongly) seen as only for women. Big mistake. 🚀 They don’t know what they’re missing!
Let’s ta...
2025-02-11 15:47:01 +0000 UTC View Post