Madonna's Wh*res: Reclaiming Life Post Purity Culture
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/W_uDFLqSS3a_fz250svSdg
Tonight at 6pm EDT. Details here: https://fetlife.com/events/1879889
2025-09-22 17:18:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Intimate Insights by Ember Solaris posts
Risk Aware 2.0 for (Especially Higher Risk) Kink: The Essential Frameworks
The Neurobiology of Consent in Sex and Kink
Slides: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1H1SB1w5jIw5KN54JN5iV3pZ7epRld82WGFK0UBsU4Og/edit?usp=sharing
2025-08-03 15:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Scarification with Scalpels
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2025-06-30 11:43:04 +0000 UTC View PostBloodboarding Class
This class is for advanced sharps players and waterboarders. See Liquid Will for foundational information.
2025-06-15 19:17:06 +0000 UTC View PostMonth 1 of Draft
Day 5: Legal vs Ethical Consent ✴️
This exercise has a 🧩 Consent Foundations track addition.
Assignment:
Write two definitions of consent:
What would make consent legally valid in your jurisdiction?
What would make consent ethically rich in your scenes and relationships?
Journal Prompt:
Where do those definitions overlap?
Where do they conflict?
Day 4: Agency Is Not Just Saying Yes
Reflection Prompt:
When was the last time you chose something because it felt aligned—not because it was expected or the easiest path?
What did it feel like to make that choice?
Affirmation:
“I have a circle of self. I do not owe access to this space to anyone—not even when it’s expected.”
Practice:
Say no to something today that you’d u...
2025-05-11 17:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Day 2: Consent Is More Than a Yes
Assignment:
Make a list of five reasons someone might say yes to something (sexual, kinky, an unwanted work assignment, or something else) that isn't truly consensual (e.g., saying yes to avoid conflict, because they’re scared, because they’re supposed to want it, etc.). For each one, list what would have to change for that yes to become a real yes.
Practice:
Next time someone else says yes to you, pause. If app...
2025-05-10 17:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Day 1: What Does Consent Mean to You?
Month 1: Understanding Consent in a World That Undermines It—Foundations of Consent
Week 1: Defining Consent Beyond Compliance
Weekly Focus: Breaking down what consent is—and isn’t—through daily exercises that reveal early socialization, media messages, and internalized scripts.
Adjacent Topics: Agency, capacity, coercion, compliance, enthusiasm.
Cultural Context: Most of us originally learned about consent thr...
2025-05-09 17:23:10 +0000 UTC View PostBook Announcement: 365 Days of Consent Culture Exercises for Kinksters
By Ember Solaris
I'm excited to announce my upcoming book, "365 Days of Consent Culture Exercises for Kinksters". Parts and sneak peeks of the book will start being posted here for subscribers.
A Yearlong Journey to Embodied, Ethical, and Everyday Consent—in and out of the scene
What if consent wasn't just something you negotiated before a scene—but something you lived, moment to moment, in your body, your relationships, and your community?
<... 2025-05-09 16:29:06 +0000 UTC View PostComplimentary Ticket to Risk Aware 2.0
The link above will get you a free ticket to attend should you like to use it. The event is pay what you can otherwise.
RSVP here: https://fetlife.com/events/1720926
Join me for a dynamic virtual workshop designed to give kinksters the tools and perspectives needed to navigate play in the modern environment. Update your skillset and understanding with the latest frameworks rising in popularity as we increa...
2025-03-13 00:27:07 +0000 UTC View PostMy Discord and Monster Fucking Chat
Okay, I've opened a Monster Fucking chat in my own Discord since I'm not sure whether or not Kinky Kollege's is just for event attendees. https://discord.gg/xVsssv3v2x
CW for blood and sharps
Self Harm/NSSI and Improving Your Relationship to Pain in Kink
Slides link: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1YCgxOxOFtFgzO_Jw1K4-Wr5ll6iH07EvIjAbKr8hJFw/edit?usp=drive_link
Handout link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-2gVrVkUxWRwtQCCzjqUAJ9-pkHSooyD3INCD...
2024-12-12 15:20:43 +0000 UTC View Post
Monster Fuckers Recording
Hi Delightfuls!
Here's the recording and other info from Monster Fuckers. Since it is so sexually explicit, I have not posted it on Youtube, because Youtube will strike me. Instead I'm sharing it directly from my Zoom recordings. You will need the passcode listed below to access it.
Recording: https://us06web.zoom.us/rec/sha...
