Do You Have Big Dick Energy? EXCLUSIVE PATREON VERSION

So we have to be mind readers basically.

Brian

Sexual education. So much on the internet that is so wrong. Men get it wrong. Women get it wrong. But from what I've seen, AG gets most of it right.

Eric Linden

Apparently I do have Big Dick Energy - as well as a 'massive cock' to quote my ex-gf (bless her!)

Simon

That point you made about how women don't want to have to deal with your experience but be in their own feminine emotions during a sexual encounter was on point. A man should always be able to take over the logistics of the situation. In all aspects of the relationship

Opportunity Investing

Biggest takeaway from this vid: it's overwhelmingly important to be good in bed, or she'll have nothing but contempt for you.

William Mullen

You have to do what you love. You see the need for it and the value of it. You feel called to do it. You'll regret not doing it later, I promise. Those opposed to it don't need to click it to watch. Just tag it. I think their unease was mostly due to it being an unwelcome tag on to something they did want to watch.

Joe Mullany

Alexander, love your work... but... all I kept thinking was... jeezus that’s a lot of ish to consider just to get laid. I mean, like what’s women’s job in all of this? I do some of this stuff naturally because that is just who I am naturally. Some of this stuff that you’re conveying, I’m honestly not sure how women perceive me because they are all so very differently idiosyncratic. And, they tend to project so much of their personal hang ups from the past onto me, which often makes it hard to tell what’s really a sincere stance versus crazy or misandry. Speaking of... The woman writing this stuff seems like a total misandrist and I doubt anyone is ever gonna be good enough for all her “standards” and idealism. At least not in any sustainable way. So... Can’t take too much of what she says that seriously. Lastly, in my MANY years of success and failure with women, I’ve reached a point where I’ve realized that the more I go into this stuff thinking too hard, the more likely it is that I crash and burn. The best game is no game. What you laid out may not be intentional “game”, but if I’m working too manage all these rules, it’s pretty much still just game. As you did mention, self improvement is the best and only game with consistent results.

Tawdry Beast

I wonder, how many times you had to speak out loud BIG DICK ENERGY before you stopped laughing about it... I don't know, this sounds too funny for me!

Marcin Rajski

I have big dick no energy

Hugo Matiz

Yes. Do more sexual education stuff. If people aren’t interested they can skip it.

Joshua

Yes by all means please sneak more if the sexual education in. I personally changed my behavior in bed A LOT in the past year (thanks SGM!) But I want to hear more from you as well, it's always good to learn more!

Alexander Christian

I clicked the link in the description and exactly seventeen seconds later went full MGTOW.

Will Uter

Great video, really interesting. Follow your curiously, talk about what you want to talk about you might loose some viewers but will pick up more.

Rupert Brown

This was great!

rumlyne

He's talking about what's attractive. No-one ever said it was fair!

Jeans

The post basically seems like one big exercise in the halo effect - that is, the tendency to think that people attractive in one way are also great in every other ways. Like, it's pretty much a list of traits she finds sexy in their own right, together with some more or less flimsy justifications for how they translate to 'big dick energy'. Interesting as a frank (VERY frank) expression of what women are and aren't attracted to. But the logic makes about as much sense as a dude saying that women with voluptuous-looking 'blowjob lips' must automatically give good head. Naah, dude, you're just into those lips because they look hot in their own right, not because of what they tell you about the quality of her head.

Jeans

All queens, all the time!

Polygon Masterworks

the definition of gormless is gormless(Adjective) Lacking intelligence, sense or discernment, often implying lack of capacity of will to remedy the condition. gormless(Adjective) Inexperienced, naïve, innocent to the point of foolishness.

Mickey Turner

the definition of pornsick is "Adjective: negatively conditioned and desensitized by continued exposure to pornography"

Mickey Turner

So what you’re saying is it’s filled with a bunch of super classy gals 😆

I don't know if you know this but "big dick energy" isn't something the women on FDS created, it's been going around particularly in more liberal environments and hookup culture. FDS is a fascinating sub that is the reverse side of the coin to TheRedPill. It's even more extreme than RP full of misandry. I also find it funny they call most guys "scrotes" and think every woman needs to be treated as a queen and guys have to fulfill this giant list of requirements.

Polygon Masterworks

About that i can tell you a story of a friend of mine who got in distress from his previous Girlfriend when he strated to beg for love and wanted all for him when she was studying and paying less attention. First rule: Don't beg for love. And you cannot be happy without the things Alexander talked about in the previous video. You need to build yourself up first. Yes nature is cruel and doesn't listen to men who want equality. And neither do women as far as i can tell. We are all guided by the same purpose. I've done my homework and it took me a long time to do it. And what i can see here is that differences between men and women are obvious from biological perspective. And yet i surronded myself with friends from different backgrounds and they listen to me and propose an option. I take the best and adapt to it. If we take the victimhood aproach we are done for. Not just in relations but also in work and life itself. It's really bad yes. Take your time to reflect and be better. All i can see right now it that this is a game. If you loose your temper stuff will crumble on you. In any man if i'm being rigorous. There's still a lot to do for the children and teens boys. But that must come from our position in life. Hope i clarified my position on this one. Cheers.

Luis Gomes

Great breakdown and I, too, heard some gems. However, my personal experience has still been this expectation that it's the man's job to satisfy versus mutually working to please one another in bed. A female family member told me something that helps me manage the irritation - women are receivers/takers even down to anatomy. I thought that was brilliant.

Julian Gudger

Definitely new terms to learn from this one. 😆 And I agree with you on the sexual education. I think a lot of people have pretty crappy sex lives and a big part of it is because they don’t talk about it (with their partner or anyone else). Women gossip about sex for sure, but that doesn’t necessarily translate to them have meaningful discussions about it that can help improve circumstances if things are going poorly. It’s also kind of sad because it sounds like this woman may have slept with a LOT of guys to get this information first hand - and now that she finally knows what to look for, she probably can’t get the kind of guy she wants now - at least not in any long term capacity. My last thought is I’ve seen a lot of posts from guys who talk about how their wives or girlfriends don’t want to have sex anymore after a while. I don’t know for sure if this is a change because of kids, a poor sex life, or a myriad of things. But whenever I see that it worries me guys will think girls don’t really care about sex. We do, and, having been married 19 years, I can confirm it is critical to a happy marriage. So despite all the crudity in that girls post- I am glad you shared It.

About male victimhood in dating, how long is a guy expected to be happy with shit conditions? It's unfair that men's grievances aren't listened to. And it seems like it's a one way street.

Fatbelly