This guide was shared by a fellow student of the Academy. It is very extensive and helpful for those wanting to know how to market on Reddit.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/oe2yearjsoy9i4m/CompleteGuidetoReddit%20%281%29.pdf?dl=0
2023-04-01 16:31:09 +0000 UTC
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Happy Friday!
Currently on vacation but adding a quick update; I won’t be back from my travels until the end of this month, so our next Zoom is scheduled for April 7th at 7 pm EST.
Please note that OPEN Q&A’s are not recorded. You are encouraged to take notes during the Zoom.
Can’t wait to chat!
2023-03-24 13:28:33 +0000 UTC
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Here are some ideas of the different types of content you can create based on popular fetish categories. It's always best to put your own spin on things to make your content personable to you!
ASMR
- Whispering directly into the camera on ways a sub will worship or serve you
- Slapping hard services or items with impact play tools and amplifying the sound with a mic
- Stroking armpit hair while on camera (for those with hair fetishes)
- Ea...
2023-03-15 21:43:43 +0000 UTC
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VPN's are important to have during your journey as an online content creator in the SW industry. VPN's hide your IP address for those wanting to stay low-key across the web and protected. It is also important as new laws are popping up often regarding silencing SWers. See below:

You can pre pay for 15 months of a VPN for $100 via expressvpn.com
2023-03-14 12:16:07 +0000 UTC
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For those of us who may not have time to film content, aren’t ready to film content, or have other interests, item selling can be a great source of income. Whether you are selling socks, panty hose, underwear, or other worn items, their is a market for almost everything.
1. Finding where to sell
If you already have existing social media, it’s good to start there with advertising. Letting people know that you have worn items for sell is the best way to get th...
2023-03-09 13:09:24 +0000 UTC
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This lesson is for those who want to build their brand but may have a vanilla job or identity to protect. Most people often think that they have to show their face to be successful in the Femdom/Findom world, but this isn't necessarily true. But be aware, you may have to do a little more work to stand out.
1. Find your niche within not wanting to show your face
Your niche or your specialization is the personality and services you want to offer within your...
2023-03-06 17:22:54 +0000 UTC
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Here are some updates on some upcoming things outside of Patreon for those wanting options for classes:
MARCH 3 from 6-8 PM EST VIA ZOOM: LUXURY DOMINATION + TRAVEL COURSE WITH MISTRESS MARLEY AND MADAME CARAMEL
Sign up: https://www.whipzdungeon.com/event-detai...
2023-02-28 15:53:14 +0000 UTC
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Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Mistress Marley's Zoom Meeting
Time: Feb 27, 2023 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86823629293?pwd=Ny9ndWwyWFFVZ0V0cVdDRnBlOVRMZz09
Meeting ID: 868 2362 9293
Passcode: 435475
One tap mobile<...
2023-02-27 15:50:02 +0000 UTC
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This list will be updated regularly. If you have any suggestions to add, please comment below.
Alabama
Alaska
Arizona
Arkansas
California
Blackthorn Empower Exchange
Night Shade Sanctuary (San Francisco)
Sanctuary LAX
Threshold LA
Dungeon East
The Children of Lilith Temple
Dominion LA
Colorado
Connecti...
2023-02-24 20:42:25 +0000 UTC
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Happy Monday!
I'm throwing another one of my infamous Goddess Brunches in Houston on April 29th! For those who have never attended a Goddess Brunch, it includes:
- Interactive class where you practice on actual subs
- Full brunch buffet and wine bar
- Gift bags
- Meet & greet with myself + networking with other upcoming Dommes
I have hosted 10 brunches since 2019 with an estimate of around 400+ guests. You must be 21+ to attend.
Tickets: 2023-02-20 15:13:10 +0000 UTC
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Uploading Process:
When uploading to clips sites, each website has a different process. Each process involves being descriptive and using the right tags so your content has more visibility.
Titles and description: The title of your clip should be eye-catching to subs buying content. The description should describe just enough, but not give away the full contents of the clip so that subs are still enticed to buy.
Tagging: Tag...
2023-02-09 14:51:24 +0000 UTC
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Types of Submissives/Relationships
A Domme/sub relationship is a consensual exchange of power. The role of each dynamic is different, but it is always a role that is consensual and can be negotiated upon. The Domme in this case holds the power and control of the sub. The sub, or submissive, relinquishes, or releases their power for the Domme to control. The sub is ultimately trusting the Domme with this power.
Master and servant - In a...
2023-01-31 18:50:12 +0000 UTC
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Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Mistress Marley's Zoom Meeting
Time: Jan 17, 2023 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/85317298925?pwd=K3U4cUdCeEdTd0d0QWlWQ0lFbUJTdz09
Meeting ID: 853 1729 8925
Passcode: 27NvKv
One tap mobile<...
2023-01-17 22:36:36 +0000 UTC
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New year, new start. This is the opportunity to outline your goals for your content and lifestyle this year. Becoming organized can help multiply your reach and your income.
For Femdom/Findom/Content Creation:
You should be on at least 3 of these websites:
1. Twitter
2. Fetlife
3. Onlyfans
4. Loyalfans
5. Niteflirt
6. Sextpanther
7. I Want Clips
8. Clips4Sale
9. Manyvids
10. Tryst
11. Personal Web...
2023-01-08 14:50:56 +0000 UTC
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I know there are those of you that missed out on the one-on-one mentoring that was once offered here on Patreon, so I am offering an even better opportunity!
Starting April 3rd, I will be hosting a 4-week intensive Financial Domination Bootcamp via Zoom.
This course will be hosted entirely through Zoom and class will be conducted every Monday at 6 pm EST, starting April 3 and ending on April 24.
Included with your Ticket:
- Pro Domination H...
2023-01-08 14:41:40 +0000 UTC
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We all know that content creation is the bread and butter of the Findom/Femdom/Adult Industry and having different avenues to make money is important is it diversifies your income.
Loyal Fans is a website where creators can upload their content for their Subscribers, Fans, and the Public. Here's the difference between the 3:
1. Subscribers - pay one set fee to get access to your unlocked videos that you post on your Loyal Fans timeline
2. Fans - can subscribe for fee but onl...
2023-01-08 14:37:34 +0000 UTC
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Happy new year! Welcome to our first session series of the year: Pegging!
Pegging is the act of a wearing a strap on to enter the consenting party. In the Femdom space, this is one of the most requested things from subs. Although pegging can be fun, exhilarating, and pleasurable, there is a lot of protocol that goes into doing it safely.
1. Before indulging in any act (even pegging) you always have to discuss boundaries and limits with your partner. Ask them quest...
2023-01-05 15:50:59 +0000 UTC
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I'll be doing another live zoom for those of you who want to ask any questions regarding Findom/Femdom/Sugar/Content Creation. This is usually a one hour Zoom.
Please choose a date and time. Majority will win.
2023-01-02 14:09:01 +0000 UTC
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Good morning! Here are some links to keep in mind for The Sexcademy:
One on one mentoring sign up: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/courses
(I no longer offer one on one mentoring on this platform. All mentoring requests must be made through the above link. Message me if you’d like to see reviews!)
Engagement Discord:
2023-01-02 14:05:27 +0000 UTC
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Good morning!
Today I am extending an offer for those who are interested in having their social media pages reviewed. These reviews will include.
1. A look over of up to two social media pages
2. Advice on edits and improvements that can be made to maximize earnings (if needed)
3. Branding advice
4. Boosted visibility on my Twitter page (@eyesxonfire)
Please send me a message if interested ...
2022-12-23 14:15:23 +0000 UTC
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Twitter is the bread and butter of social media marketing when it comes to adult content creation + anything Findom/Femdom related. It's a form of 'flash' marketing that allows the user to tweet in real time and consistently post about new content that has been uploaded to other pay sites and clips sites (along with bookings for travel, sessions, etc)
For a first time user, Twitter can be overwhelming - but I have some tips to help you work smart and not hard.
1. Create a ...
2022-12-22 23:31:28 +0000 UTC
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Happy Monday!
I hope you all had an amazing year and had successes with your Femdom/Findom journey. Even though we're reaching the end of this year, you can still make time to set yourself up early for the new year. Here are some gems/tips for ending the year out.
1. Stockpile that content for next year! The holidays can sometimes be the 'slow season' in Findom/Femdom, but come January, things start to pick up. Subs are eager to spend their money on content and se...
2022-12-19 15:58:09 +0000 UTC
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Hi everyone,
You can now choose to pay for Patreon on an annual basis. It’s a great way to show your support to me, and in return, you’ll get a 5 percent discount when you do. In addition to reducing transaction fees, you’ll help me create quality content faster and reduce the chance your credit card declines in the future.
For existing patrons, the following steps will help you switch over your pledge to annual.
- Log in, hover over your profile icon in the top ri...
2022-12-18 23:15:36 +0000 UTC
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Happy Sunday!
I just wanted to give a personal shout out to my one on one mentees over the past few months that have informed me on their wins!
The Sexcademy is always a “learn on your own” type platform as I give you the tools to learn, but often times I have students who need that one on one help. This consists of me meeting with them weekly.
I’m always taking new mentees. If you’re interested in one on one mentoring, you can visit 2022-12-18 16:52:15 +0000 UTC
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2022-12-06 18:11:30 +0000 UTC
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Let's discuss.
I always receive messages from upcoming SWers asking: "What do I price my content?"
That, my friend, is entirely up to you.
I say this because in this industry, there aren't set rates. There's no one way to price things or determine what your worth is. Each rate set by SWers is based off of what they know they personally need - whether it deals with bills, expenses, financial goals trying to reach, etc.
One thing that is importan...
2022-11-29 16:06:40 +0000 UTC
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Please read above promotion from Clips4Sale!
2022-11-23 15:36:38 +0000 UTC
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To access the first course on this lesson, visit this link: https://www.patreon.com/posts/45134894
BEFORE TRAVEL:
1. Secure your passport - This should be a no brainer for those wanting to travel internationally. Secure your passport and if you have one already, make sure that it isn't expired. If you are wanting to stay in countries for 3 months or more, be sure to loo...
2022-11-16 15:33:38 +0000 UTC
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Good morning! Here are some links to keep in mind for The Sexcademy:
One on one mentoring sign up: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/courses
(I no longer offer one on one mentoring on this platform. All mentoring requests must be made through the above link. Message me if you’d like to see reviews!)
Engagement Discord: 2022-11-08 13:04:33 +0000 UTC
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