UPCOMING EVENTS
Here are the upcoming Goddess Brunches ! Please note that Chicago is almost at capacity.
Link to rsvp:
Must be 21+ to attend!
2023-09-24 20:12:54 +0000 UTC View Post
Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+) posts
DISCORD CHAT
Just reposting the link to our Discord server! it includes resources, engagement groups, general questions and conversations regarding lessons here on the Patreon, and events.
Please only join if you can be active at least once per month. No lurkers.
2023-09-19 18:48:11 +0000 UTC View PostAVOIDING SHADOW BAN/SEARCH BAN
This graphic was shared by fellow student @Pandamamidai via the Discord chat for those who may be dealing with their content not being seen on Twitter.
TODAY'S ACCOUNTABILITY ZOOM CALL
As mentioned in a previous post, I will be hosting a Zoom call for accountability for everyone today at 6 PM EST. This call is to help each other with working on our journey through holding each other accountable for being active, creating content, networking, + more.
This call will NOT be recorded.
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Mistress Marley's Zoom Meeting
Time: Sep 14, 2023 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
MY FEMDOMME/FINDOMME INDUSTRY BUSINESS MODEL
Here on The Sexcademy, I often highlight how being in this industry is REAL WORK (and can also be HARD WORK) but I want you all to get a scope at how I run my business virtual and in person successfully.
* please note that I have been in the industry for 5 years and this has changed and will change over the years.
VIRTUAL MODEL
- Daily - post marketing + content to twitter (casual content, vanilla content pertaining to my luxury/travel niche, t... 2023-09-08 16:27:45 +0000 UTC View Post
UPCOMING GODDESS BRUNCHES
For those not aware, I have been curating and throwing events specifically for aspiring and current Dommes through my “Goddess Brunches”. These events involve networking, practicing on REAL subs and building connections with them for future servitude, great food, and the opportunity to learn and fellowship with me up close and personal!
Each event has been an amazing experience allowing people to connect in non judgmental environments. So far I have had events in NYC, Houston, DC, ...
2023-09-04 16:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostACCOUNTABILITY CHECK IN ZOOM CALL - SEPT 14TH
Good morning!
When building your brand and creating content, accountability is EVERYTHING! How good are you at sticking to a schedule and putting the time in to build your brand to reap the rewards? Some of us say we are going to put the work in, but we often don’t or fall behind!
I’ll be holding a Zoom call on September 14th at 6 PM EST for one hour so we can all come together and discuss what we can do to improve our brands and make sure our social media pages are up to st...
2023-09-04 14:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostPLEASE READ REGARDING PROMO WITH FEMDOM WORLD
Femdom_World on twitter is a sub ran page who promotes Dommes as a service to their community. They do not do sessions nor send tributes, but have a large following where they promo Dommes. They are fine with me referring Dommes to them, but please note this:
When approaching Femdom World for content, please make sure your account is professional and has every guideline. Please do not use my name for promo if your account is not up to standard (age verification, bdsm related content, a...
2023-09-02 17:40:12 +0000 UTC View PostCONTENT POSTING SCHEDULE HELP
For those not knowing where to start when it comes to creating content and posting it, here's EXACTLY how I do my posting schedule.
DAY ONE:
1. Idea gathering : To make this easier on myself, I log on to I Want Clips, click 'Top Lists' and I scroll down to the Top Categories for the day. This helps me to work smart and not hard in the sense of not creating content that isn't trending or hasn't trended for a long time. For example 'Financial Domination' is always i...
2023-08-16 14:08:17 +0000 UTC View PostMORE ABOUT CONTENT POSTING
Happy Mid-August!
So I get it, content posting can seem overwhelming and like there are a lot of moving pieces to creating - it doesn't have to be that way.
Some people think unless they are fully dressed up in latex, have an expensive camera and expensive lighting, and have 20 min + long clips, their content won't sell.
This is false.
I've sold clips as short as 50 seconds at $10. When a submissive man sees something he likes, he's goin...
2023-08-16 13:59:03 +0000 UTC View PostEXAMPLE FINDOM CONTENT CREATION VIDEO
For those maybe confused or not knowing where to start when it comes to creating content in the Financial Domination category on I Want Clips. Check out the attached example. 50 seconds of a 2 minute example.
Link to video: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/vmj7v0jbzgwyp92kswj31/sexcademyfindomexample.mov?rlkey=nnz0zo3jdbhwh369by7yrvef...
2023-08-02 17:33:45 +0000 UTC View PostPROMO REVIEWS
For those that don’t know, I’ve been offering promo on my Twitter for Dommes who need more exposure and eyes on their page. I’ve added screenshots of a recent from my promo.
My Twitter stats:
56.8k followers (around 80 percent of these followers are submissives from all over the world)
Promo rules is as follows:
Promo prices are the following:
•One post to stay up for 24 hours - $25
•One post to stay up for one week - $50
... 2023-07-28 16:15:01 +0000 UTC View PostLIVE ZOOM Q&A - JULY 31 6-8 PM EST
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: LIVE ZOOM Q&A JULY 31
Time: Jul 31, 2023 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84704914215?pwd=bUZkVXVjNWl1SGJmSEVXZDJjN092UT09
Meeting ID: 847 0491 4215
Passcode: 654930
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FEMINIZATION VS SISSY TRAINING
Feminization and Sissy Training are both common kinks/fetishes that may be requested of you from subs at some point in your Domme career. Both require a form of making a submissive man dress or behave in a femme presenting way. These kinks can be done both virtually and in person.
Note: Feminization is a part of Sissy Training, but Sissy Training is not involved in all Feminization.
What's involved in both?
FEMINIZATION:
Feminiza...
2023-07-18 19:56:12 +0000 UTC View Post3 WAYS TO SECURE TRIBUTES + FUNDS!
The process of securing tributes and funds can be a challenge in the beginning of your career, especially when you are first starting out and building your brand. Subs like to send to Dommes that they are either physically, mentally, or emotionally attracted to - in other words, they have to feel enticed to send.
As Dommes, we never beg or go out of our way to ask for tribute. Trust me, if you feel you are going back and forth for a long time with a sub about a tribute, you're ...
2023-07-18 00:14:43 +0000 UTC View PostHAPPY JULY!
Go into this month with a fresh plan! Record content, upload, clean up your pages if it’s been stagnant, set up some email marketing if you have subscribers - have fun with it but stay focused!
This month:
- July 14 Queer femme pajama party
- ATL Goddess Brunch Night Event - July 21 (I have few tickets left for this, almost at capacity)
- Findom Bootcamp starts Aug 7-Aug 28.
- I also still offer one on one mentoring that you can schedule in advance for w... 2023-07-01 16:10:57 +0000 UTC View Post
ALTERNATIVE PAYMENT METHODS TO CASH APP
With the news coming out that Cash App has been shutting down accounts left and right (of vanilla people and us SWers), it's best that you are informed on alternative payment methods to keep your bag coming in. If your Cash App is still operating normally, remember to always move money off of Cash App IMMEDIATELY after receiving it. Never leave your money on payment apps.
1. Wishtender
Operated through stripe, allows clients to pay you anonymously, and prevents ch...
2023-06-25 14:12:04 +0000 UTC View PostSIS: IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT TWITTER! (THE IMPORTANCE OF USING MULTIPLE WEBSITES AS A FEMDOMME/FINDOMME))
If you only have a page on Twitter and aren't focusing on other sites for promotion, you're doing this all wrong.
Twitter is a great place for flash advertising and connecting with the community - however, you shouldn't be putting all of your stock into it. If you also think you can log onto Twitter and just post "send loser!" with no content or brand presence, you're also doing this wrong and it may be the cause of you not receiving tributes.
POWERPOINT: FEMINIZATION/SISSY TRAINING COURSE
Happy Sunday!
I recently taught a course on Feminization in collaboration with Mistress Malisia's academy. I have attached the powerpoint to this post for you to use at your leisure.
If you are in the $20 tier, you will receive a post with the live video uploaded which includes a demo on one of my subs.
Enjoy!
2023-06-04 16:16:33 +0000 UTC View PostJOIN THE DISCORD GROUP CHAT!
If you aren't apart of the Academy Discord Group Chat, you should be! Here's why:
1. The chat connects you to other students who are on the same journey as you.
2. The chat is active 24/7, meaning if you have an urgent question, drop it there for feedback!
3. There are separate channels for engagement within the chat, meaning opportunities to help promo your content for followers/subs
4. Opportunity to link up with other Dommes in your area for attending events togethe...
2023-05-21 13:16:35 +0000 UTC View PostZOOM RECORDING 5/19
https://www.dropbox.com/s/0yrboxjs0d6a7be/patreonzoommay19.mp4?dl=0
2023-05-20 20:09:38 +0000 UTC View PostADDITIONAL LEARNING MATERIAL (OPTIONAL)
As we all know, the purpose of this Patreon is to learn on a self-help basis, meaning I create the courses and you guide yourselves.
If you find yourself to be a visual learner or need live classes to better understand the material more in depth, I offer other methods to learn from me.
FINDOM BOOTCAMP:
This is a 4 week virtual class that is held every Monday in July. Each week we go over different topics that are important to excelling in your journey. Als...
2023-05-10 20:45:38 +0000 UTC View PostSEXCADEMY HOUSE KEEPING RULES (REFRESHER)
Happy Tuesday!
We have a lot of new students that have joined us last month and this month (welcome!) and I thought it'd be best to go over some housekeeping rules again so you are making the best out of your time here on the Sexcademy!
1. When first joining, take a deep breath! There is a lot of information and courses here (dating all the way back to April 2020!) that you'll need to dive right into. It is less productive to join and start asking questions ri...
2023-05-09 13:20:43 +0000 UTC View PostTIMING ONLINE SESSIONS
Sometimes before doing an online session, we might get nervous on how to fill in the time, especially if the session is 30 mins or more.
It’s best to not overthink these things and to instead come up with a schedule that can help you get through your session quickly and less awkwardly.
EXAMPLE: Foot worship virtual session (30 mins)
Set a time limit for each section of the session.
First 5 mins: Introductions, going over soft and hard limits, reit...
2023-05-08 20:11:08 +0000 UTC View PostZOOM OPEN Q&A - May 18th 6 PM EST
Our Zoom for this month will be on May 18th at 6 PM EST. This Zoom serves as an opportunity for you to ask me any questions pertaining to the academy, the lessons, and advice. Note: Q&A’s are not recorded so it is encouraged for you to attend! These are held once per month and open to ALL TIERS
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Patreon Zoom
Time: May 18, 2023 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
RED FLAGS WITH SUBS (MINI LESSON)
Happy May! May this month be full of abundance for you and your journey. Let’s touch base on some red flags to look for in subs:
- Subs who want to have back and forth conversation all day with no intentions to book.
- Subs who insist that you’re fake and want you to prove you’re real all while bypassing your verified paysites.
- Subs who are owned by other Dommes and don’t make you aware
- Subs who don’t communicate their boundaries
- Subs who lie... 2023-05-01 23:56:17 +0000 UTC View Post
WORKING A “NO FACE NICHE”
Just wanted to share a quick graphic I created that helped my Bootcamp students! Some ideas for those not wanting to show their face.
If interested in joining semester 2 of Bootcamp, you can sign up here (note: Bootcamp is NOT included with a regular Patreon subscription)
https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/event-details/findom-bootcamp-part-2
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2023-04-19 12:21:43 +0000 UTC View PostZOOM RECORDING FROM 4/11
https://www.dropbox.com/s/9d07jx1ncowj8qo/patreonzoom411.mp4?dl=0
2023-04-12 11:37:48 +0000 UTC View PostMORE TIPS FOR NITEFLIRT/SEXTPANTHER
For those of us that have more a niche/skill for humiliation over the phone and through text, websites like Niteflirt and Sextpanther provide avenues to earn money with less energy that it takes to create clips or to do video sessions. Let's first look at a list of what each website offers:
Niteflirt:
- Provides an alternative phone number for customers to call your line
- Works on a bidding system - you bid to be advertised on ... 2023-04-08 12:26:00 +0000 UTC View Post