Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+)

SESTA/FOSTA

SESTA/FOSTA

SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex Trafficking Act) and FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) are two bills that not only work to defeat sex trafficking, but on a more contradictory note, they both are responsible in silencing and deplatforming sex workers. Since it’s conception, SESTA/FOSTA has done more harm for sex workers than good. Both highlight how sex trafficking is confused with sex work. 

Sex trafficking involves forcing someone into acts of ...

FINDOM: WHAT IS IT?

Here’s a small look into to what Findom is: https://www.dropbox.com/s/0seffblwptzgro4/Findom101.MOV?dl=0

More in Depth:

Findom, or financial domination,is a psychological form of erotic humiliation that involves a D/s relationship where a submissive serves their dominant by giving them money, gifts, etc. One of the psychological aspects of this is the submissive knowing that they...

SCREENING CLIENTS

Screening clients 

Here at The Sexcademy, I can not stress enough how important it is to screen clients! Yes, we want to get to the bag, but the bag is NEVER worth your safety. Properly screening clients before sessions (both online and in person) can help you to keep yourself safe and also not waste your time. You can do this screening with subs, sugar sponsors, and clients in general. 

• Reverse Number Look Up

If a client gives you thei...

NAVIGATING FETLIFE

Fetlife is used in both bdsm and sex work, being a network to connect with other kinky people/clients. In this video, I show you how to navigate Fetlife in simpler terms.

Dropbox to view: https://www.dropbox.com/s/dgxzt5vmdbcertz/Fetlifenavi.mov?dl=0

*fixed video as I got cut off 

WHAT’S YOUR KINK?

SAFETY FOR SESSIONS

So now that you’ve booked an in person session, I’m pretty sure your next concern is how to stay safe. Here are some steps you can take:

• Decide your booking location 

NEVER GO TO A CLIENTS HOUSE. THIS IS UNSAFE AND CAN PUT YOU IN DANGER.

Dungeon vs hotel

Your best bet for ultimate safety is to book a dungeon in your city, as most dungeons provide security, employees, and an overall safe environment for your session. Be sure to include the dungeon fee in ...

Protecting Your Identity

With so much public information being available at the touch of a finger on social media, learning how to protect your identity is IMPORTANT when entering sex work. This not only protects you safely, but also protects your livelihood, career, and personal interests from those you want to keep it from. 

Whether you are a sex worker, sugar baby, or entering the BDSM industry in the lifestyle sector, you’ll want to keep these steps in mind to protect yourself. 

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How to Tap into Your Submissive Side

Some of us are excited by the idea of being submissive. We may like to be punished, told what to do, or serve someone that we are comfortable serving. In BDSM relationships, being a submissive is all about how well you can take direction, but still knowing that consent comes into play.

Sexual submission is a super common sexual fantasy, whether it’s in a kink or vanilla play scene. Knowing where to start can help to set the tone for a healthy D/s environment:

• Figure out your...

How to Tap into Your Dominant Side

Tapping into dominance 

As we discussed in our terminology course, being the dominant party in a BDSM relationship is held to the highest regard. You are the one setting the scene, the dominance, the terms of play, etc. You are the point of trust for your submissive partner, in which they have relinquished their power to you. 

While being dominant can find easy fir some, it’s not always that way with everyone. I tapped into my dominant side later in li...

Apps for Fake Phone Numbers/For texting

When interacting with someone new, whether a SD or an online/real time client, it is best to not give them your real contact information. Here are some apps to conceal your number:

Google Voice

Text Free

Text Now

Telegram

Discord

Geneva

Majority of these can be downloaded from your phone's App Store!

Foot Fetish Content

A lot of concerns in this industry come from wanting to keep your identity protected (if you are not “out” about this work). One of the best and lucrative lanes to dive into is the selling of foot fetish content.

Foot worship can be intersectional with sex work and BDSM. Both in lifestyle play and as a way to make side income. The plus side is that ALL types of feet content can sell, whether it’s pedicured, dirty, sweaty, in stockings, covered in oil, etc. Your content can be vide...

HOW TO NAVIGATE NITEFLIRT (Phone Sex Operation)

Phone sex operation, or PSO, is an old profession, dating all the way back to when the telephone was first created. It involves no physical contact and only your voice and creativity.  PSO operators are growing in numbers, especially with the improvement of technology today. 

Websites like Niteflirt give you free range to create your own listings, take calls on your time, and receive extra gifts from clients. I always recommend that operators consider taking on different perso...

Keep Submissives Coming Back!

Four Steps to Keeping a Sub Hooked!

Okay, so you’ve snagged a sub. Whether it’s findom or Femdom, you’ve found someone ready to serve and worship your every need. But the big question is: how do you keep them coming back for more, sending and spoiling you?

Here are 4 steps that have worked for me (Mistress Marley) personally:

• Content matters!

Yes, you could get online and type all day about how you deserve to drain someone’...

BDSM 101 INTRO

In this tier you will learn all things BDSM! From being submissive, switch, dominant, etc...there is a place for you here! 

Must have Dropbox to view this video: https://www.dropbox.com/s/bvys5ahakyw40kb/BDSMINTRO.mov?dl=0