Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+)

LLC FOR SW

For most of us, SW can be something to just bring in extra cash, but for some of us, it’s a way to build a potential brand. For extra protection with payments and operation, I’d recommend registering as a LLC.

When filing, check with your state with the cost as costs vary by state. Register as a “content creation” business or “event production”. Filing fees are to be paid yearly and you even get an address assigned to your LLC that doesn’t have to be your personal address....

RUNNING LIST OF SW ATTORNEYS

Reputable Female Attorney, Sex Worker & Lifestyle Contract Friendly:

Ria N. Chattergoon, Esq.

RC Law Group

3900 Hollywood Blvd. Suite 301

Hollywood, Florida 33021

Tel: 954-400-1620

Fax: 1.888.270.5549

Email: ria@therclawgroup.com

https://www.loladavina.com/legal-safety-privacy-resources

WHEN TRIBUTE IS APPROPRIATE : FETLIFE VS TWITTER

This is a VERY IMPORTANT POST! ⚡️⚡️

I review a lot of profiles in my down time and there is something I see often: asking for tribute in the wrong spaces.

On Fetlife, it is a more serious BDSM arena, meaning you’ll meet subs on there that have been into BDSM for years. These are LIFESTYLE SUBS meaning they are used to connecting with a Dom/Domme on a serious D/s level and most likely won’t tribute to you before meeting you in person. Please realize that FINDOM is a new...

Mistress Marley’s 5 Days of Content

For all of those needing content ideas here are some! This content can be posted as full clips on Only Fans or AVN Stars or teasers on Twitter, Instagram, or Fetlife. It can also be added to goodie bags on Niteflirt!

May Check In!

Happy Saturday! I want to check in on everyone’s progress in an uplifting post! How has The Sexcademy helped you so far within your learning? Have you gained confidence, knowledge, overall respect for the industry? This is an open discussion! 💓

SETTING UP VANILLA DATING PROFILES FOR SW, SUGARING, BDSM ETC

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/s/rjv7o5ni26i29q4/Video%20Apr%2029%2C%208%2037%2053%20AM.mov?dl=0

Examples of Profiles for Vanilla Dating

Bumble and Tinder

WRITING ADS FOR FETLIFE

 When it comes to Fetlife, you should be utilizing every resource available to use on the website. The most productive resource to use is posting your ads in different groups to attract potential subs or dominants, whether lifestyle or for professional paid sessions. (Remember, only discuss money on offline apps, such as Kik or a Google Voice number; Fetlife does not condone sessions in exchange for money and you could potentially have your profile removed after one warning). Here are th...

TREAT VS TRICK VS SPONSOR (VIDEO)

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/s/jqa2wo56xcpi3am/Video%20Apr%2019%2C%207%2023%2059%20PM.mp4?dl=0

Creating Quality Content

Sometimes we can get stuck on how to go about creating content or feel like that this is the most intimidating part of the process. Here are some steps to help you create your content.

1. Your equipment

You don’t need professional cameras or expensive studio lights to create. You can simply use your smart phone, an affordable ring light or natural light, and a self timer. There’s an array of ring lights you can find on Amazon.

2. Your aesthetic

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DMCA TAGGING FOR VIDEOS

A DMCA tag helps against your videos being copied or redistributed. To get a tag, you must make an account on DMCA.com. This helps you to get the basic tag for a personal website. To then learn how to watermark your videos, follow these steps:

https://www.iosappweekly.com/add-logo-watermark-image-signature-videos-iphone-videoshop/

BDSM TEST

https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode

Decides what you mean more towards in scene.

Domme Personality Types

These are the most common, but there are also Brat, Rubber Dom, Femme Daddy, Masculine, etc 

Only Fans Video Walkthrough

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/s/e3y5xzo7f97yji3/Video%20Apr%2022%2C%2010%2053%2022%20PM.mov?dl=0

Findom Twitter Engagement

So you’ve made your twitter page for findom and you have some content you want to post, but now you’re wondering: how do I get engagement?

Navigating findom twitter can ge tricky as sometimes it can get really active and sometimes it can get slow. The best times to post your content are late morning (11 AM), early afternoon (2 PM), evening (7 PM) and late night (midnight onward). You want to make sure you have the most eyes on your content as visibility = followers/likes/comments/in...

Only Fans for Beginners

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/s/vkh9iaez9ehma0o/Video%20Apr%2022%2C%201%2008%2005%20PM.mov?dl=0

I go over the basics of starting an Only Fans in this video. The walkthrough will be in a separate post! 

Attending Your First Play Party

Dropbox video:https://www.dropbox.com/s/4vwxs9qf8ummbzb/Playparty.mov?dl=0

1. Find your community 

2. Bring a partner 

3. Be aware of your surroundings 

4. Network!

5. Play!

How To Be The “Perfect” Sub

If you are serving a Domme, Dom, Top, Master, Mistress, etc the first thing you should know is that their wish is your command (consensually). A lot of subs have an interest in serving, but can sometimes go about it the wrong way. As a sub, you MUST check your ego at the door and realize your place. Whether you are lifestyle, paying for sessions, or a domesticated servant, here are some pointers to follow.

• Always check in with your Top. Never assume that they don’t want to hear f...
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CREATING SUB APPLICATIONS

Creating applications for subs can help you save time and can help you gauge the general interests of your subs. A quick and easy way to create this form would be through a site called ‘JotForm’. It’s quick and easy to use and gives you access to so many templates. Here are some things you will want to list on your form:

Name

Age

Method of contact (email, social media, kik, etc)

Years of experience as a sub

References

Favorite Kinks

H...

MANIFESTATION AND MASTURBATION

MANIFESTATION AND MASTURBATION

In any type of business, hobby, venture, or journey, manifesting can be beneficial. It is simply the art of stating what you want as if you already have it and watching it come to fruition. Another word for it is “Law of Attraction” and it uses the same principles. You can manifest in any situation, so doing it in SW, BDSM, as a SB, or just in your regular sex life, you can tweak it to work how you need it to. Whether you mean to do it or no...

ADMINISTRATING AFTERCARE

Aftercare is EXTREMELY important in any scene you participate in within BDSM. You never want to finish a scene without administering aftercare. What is after?

After care is the attention given at the dvd if a scene or session. It’s a check in for both the Domme and the sub to come down from the “high” of intense play. Here are examples of aftercare that can be given to a sub:

• Offering water or a snack
• A hug if comfortable

• Towels to ...
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CASH MEETS AND DRAIN GAMES

In Findom, cash meets and drain games are very common. Whereas drain games are mostly online, cash meets are in person. This is where Femdom and Findom become intersectional.

Cash Meet:

A cash meet involves the dominant party meeting up with the submissive party at an ATM, bank, or public setting. Cash meets should ALWAYS be in public spaces, no exceptions. These sessions are typically 10 minutes or less and can be paired with verbal or public humiliation. Usuall...

TAXES

The biggest thing that is usually not discussed in SW is taxes! Doing your taxes as a SWer is important as you don’t want it to sneak up on you.

Websites such as AVN stars, Onlyfans, and most camming sites will automatically make you sign tax forms upon registration. Taxes are usually to be filed after making 5k+, but this may vary based on the website. This is typically a 1099 form where you represent yourself as a freelancer.

Payment processors such as PayPal will require you ...

FINDOM TWITTER WALKTHROUGH

Here’s a quick walkthrough of what Findom Twitter entails.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/nxatpm98skwbse1/Findomtwitter.mov?dl=0

CONDUCTING ONLINE SESSIONS

Since we are all stuck indoors because of Covid-19, I wanted to do a quick course on how to engage in online sessions to still secure the bag or to practice your dominance in general. Although a lot of subs enjoy real time sessions, just as many enjoy text sessions, video sessions, or photo sessions. You can still establish dominance through delegating tasks for your subs and following up with commands. These sessions can also be done with long distance clients, even when we’re n...

NDA CONTRACT

Here’s a contract to be used with clients. You can switch the wording around to help fit you. 

PLAYING SAFELY IN SESSION

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/s/j8h4876cs6pmko0/Untitled.txt?dl=0

MUTUAL AID FUND FOR SWERS

Here is a link provided by a fellow SWer where you can reach out for funds during this time if needed!

SW LAWS BY STATE

Pleas utilize this list to look up the laws for sex work in your state to keep yourself protected.

DOMME KIT

Here’s a video of me explaining what should be in a basic domme kit. A lot of these items were found on Amazon!

link to video: https://www.dropbox.com/s/12dk6jxuy5mgoim/dommekit.MOV?dl=0