I found an awesome example online for those needing contracts between yourself and a bottom. This is just an example and to not be copied word for word (it shouldn’t as your terms will be different depending on your agreement with your bottom)
https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/sample-dominantsubmissive-contract
Good morning and happy Friday!
This is a reminder that each tier comes with a pinned table of contents to make your course surfing easier. I recommend using this feature to find the courses that suit you.
Tech tip: Patreon is best viewed on a desktop or phone browser. The Patreon app is great for quick looks, but the browsers have more detailed navigation.
Happy searching!
2022-04-15 13:12:19 +0000 UTC View PostJoin the Sexcademy engagement group to drop your posts for retweets, likes, and sharing on social media.
Happy Monday! Today's course will be covering safety and conducting business with clients.
CLIENT SCREENING:
Client screening is important in all areas of this industry. Keeping yourself safe should ALWAYS be your top priority. For my screening practices, I require a photo ID and references to be sent by the client. You should always follow up with the references provided (require client to give direct contact methods to reference they are using) to ensure that the client is being...
2022-04-04 13:45:02 +0000 UTC View PostTaking your branding beyond Instagram and Twitter can make a difference in the success of your business. Websites are good to have for the simple fact that social media apps are fickle - you can be here today and deleted tomorrow (speaking from experience of losing 8 profiles here!)
Having a personal website is key when it comes to building your brand and business. Reminder: not all potential clients are on Twitter, IG, OF, etc. Some are still very old school when it comes to bookings a...
2022-03-25 17:33:42 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
After doing some thinking and planning, I am now offering an exclusive one on one mentoring tier here in the Sexcademy. I realized that some students may need help beyond the courses and I am here to offer that. Please be aware that this new tier will only be offered to a set amount of students, so first come firs serve.
This tier is for those wanting access to one on one lessons with me. Please only select this tier if you wish to be dedicated to ...
2022-03-15 13:33:13 +0000 UTC View PostPlease comment below the kinds of courses you would like to see.
REMINDER: Double check to make sure this hasn’t already been covered on the Sexcademy.
I will also be integrating more video and walkthrough courses.
I’ve also done Zoom open Q&A, but I’m noticing that out of 600 students, only 20 students are showing up. This is the perfect time to ask anything pertaining to your journey. If low attendance continues, I will consider cutting it out if it...
2022-03-13 17:28:32 +0000 UTC View PostThis course pertains to online interactions with subs when it comes to Findom, online sessions, etc.
The term "real" pertains to subs who send tribute without being told, approach appropriately, and are intentional when booking sessions.
The term "fake" pertains to subs who drag out interactions, beg for your attention without sending, and inquire about sessions and then consistently ghost once replied to.
Real subs know that your time is valuable and not to be wasted. These...
2022-03-03 15:57:11 +0000 UTC View PostOur open Q&A zoom call is today at 6 PM. This is for ALL TIERS and will allow you to ask any questions regarding your journey.
Link:
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Patreon zoom
Time: Feb 27, 2022 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
2022-02-27 16:03:51 +0000 UTC View PostPlease edit the following contract to your liking :)
2022-02-26 15:57:22 +0000 UTC View PostUse this meeting to ask ANY questions you may have regarding your courses.
Feb 27th at 6 pm EST 💕
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Patreon zoom
Time: Feb 27, 2022 06:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/8604938...
2022-02-01 00:50:57 +0000 UTC View PostI say this with love :)
Please, please, please actually take the time to browse through courses before messaging me regarding basic information that is available to you. I created a table of contents pinned at the top of each tier for a reason.
There are 700 students here on this Patreon. It is nearly impossible for me to respond to each "where is this?" course when there is a table of contents provided for you to find the course. Please do your due diligence in this lifestyle, ot...
2022-01-29 14:39:40 +0000 UTC View PostHappy New Year!
A new year means a new slate with fresh opportunities to improve and grow your business in the industry. A successful business is ran consistently and should always be promoted and marketed. In this industry, YOU are your brand, so you have to put even more work in to make it stand out vs if you were selling a regular retail product. The BDSM and SW industry is CONTENT DRIVEN and there are different niches to tap into, but also remember that there is a lot of competition...
2022-01-12 20:41:39 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning! I am back today with another session series post that I've been getting a lot of inquiries about: Feminization!
Feminization is a type of role play that involves imposing traditionally female attributes onto a submissive male partner. Feminization is often used with female dominance. Feminization is typically achieved through cross-dressing. The submissive male partner wears traditionally female clothing. It may also involve the adoption of traditionally feminine behaviors...
2022-01-03 14:20:51 +0000 UTC View PostHappy last day of 2021!
We are now headed towards year 2 of the Sexcademy and I can't thank you all enough for trusting me with your journey. I see the wins, the growth, the discovery, and I'm so proud of those that have taken steps to further their education of this world to progress safely and successfully.
Use this final day of the year to organize your social media, content, and brainstorm new ideas to market your brands in the new year. You could also use this time to m...
2021-12-31 15:52:08 +0000 UTC View PostIn this industry, whether you are doing virtual work or attending parties, SAFETY should be your ultimate priority. We are all responsible for ourselves and want to try to do our absolute best in keeping ourselves safe. If you are a content creator that wants to remain safe online, here are a few safety tips (some that have already been highlighted in other courses of this academy):
1. Utilize alternative phone number apps. These apps will assign you a phone number that...
2021-12-26 18:07:24 +0000 UTC View PostPDF ATTACHED. This should help you search better and faster!
2021-12-09 17:03:28 +0000 UTC View PostWe made it to the last month of a longggg year - WHEW!
I hope you are all still learning on your journey and growing within this work.
1. As you may have noticed, the 'EXTENDED MENTORING' tier will no longer be offered this month and moving forward. Because of (positive) life changes and a change to my schedule in the new year (starting my lingerie line and other ventures), I am unable to dedicate my time to a separate mentoring group. However, if you are still apart of the ...
2021-12-03 19:29:46 +0000 UTC View PostAttached is tonight's meeting recording from the Zoom Q&A! Thanks to those that attended!
2021-11-17 01:41:47 +0000 UTC View PostWhen it comes to Findom, Femdom, and SW in general, my favorite kind of sessions to do are Skype sessions. They are virtual, don't require you to meet up in person, and gives you the freedom to schedule them at your leisure. Being able to session from the safety and comfort of my home is a great feeling and with the right client, these kind of sessions can be exciting, interesting, and rewarding.
Types of session requests for Skype:
SPH
JOI
Foot worship
Ignore se...
2021-11-16 14:36:25 +0000 UTC View PostTonight’s zoom meeting is rescheduled due to tech issues with my laptop (I planned on doing screen share)
Tomorrow is an open question and answer zoom for any questions you may have concerning the topics on Sexcademy ! Come prepared :)
Here’s the new link:
Mistress Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Mistress Marley's Zoom Meeting
Time: Nov 16, 2021 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
<... 2021-11-15 23:29:01 +0000 UTC View PostAnother month, another zoom check in! You’ll be able to answer any questioning pertaining to your tier.
2021-11-01 19:32:11 +0000 UTC View PostUsing Niteflirt can be a good way to bring in side income, as you can log on virtually anywhere you are. As a PSO website, it has many different categories from kink, to fetish, to other things that you can position yourself to be in. It can be confusing to navigate for first timers, but once you are able to manage the basics, you can earn in no time!
1. Make sure your listings pages are eye-catching
The listing page is what a customer sees when they click your listing from ...
2021-10-30 14:25:37 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
As I progress on my journey as a Domme, Kink Educator, and Activist for the SW community, I am consistently growing and learning new ways to better serve my community, both safely and professionally. The lessons I have provided here on the Patreon are based off of my personal experience being in the industry since I was 19. I am aware that what works or has worked for me may not work for each individual, but the best I can do as a teacher is constantly remind you on SAFETY...
2021-10-27 15:15:43 +0000 UTC View Post
Here’s a link explaining language and some legal things to keep in mind in the business. This isn’t a post I created, but a resource I am sharing.
https://thedommediaries.wordpress.com/tag/bdsm-and-the-law/
2021-10-27 14:33:41 +0000 UTC View PostThe organizing system here on Patreon can be a pain to use, so I’ve tried to make things easier by adding tags to certain posts (like sugar baby, femdom, Findom, subs, pages, content, tribute, etc)
Here’s a step by step on how to access tags
https://blog.patreon.com/post-tags
2021-10-10 20:49:01 +0000 UTC View PostAs a Pro Domme, there will come a time in your career/journey that you will end up traveling to other cities with interest in being booked for sessions in those cities. This can be fun, new, and adventurous, but it also can be overwhelming if you do not prepare properly ahead of time.
Here are some steps on how to travel safely and professionally as a Domme:
IF YOUR TRAVEL IS PERSONAL OR BOOKED FOR LEISURE:
1. Be sure to do extensive research on the city you're traveling to....
2021-10-04 20:27:31 +0000 UTC View PostHappy October!
I want to start this month off with an affirmation provided by Madomme RegalV, a mentee of mine in the mentoring discord. If it applies to you, I encourage using it:
“I am divinely feminine” “I am worthy of lavish gifts” “I deserve to be taken care of” “I love everything about myself and my body”
“These help me feel more confident and reminds me to adjust my crown when I go out and help me remember that being feminine ...
2021-10-03 13:46:41 +0000 UTC View PostLately on social media, we have been seeing more and more platforms delete SWer and sex-posi creator accounts left and right, with no explanation or no interest in returning your account. As someone who has first hand experience in losing their IG account 6 times in less than 3 months, the importance of building my own website held high priority.
Personal websites are beneficial because no matter what may happen to your social media, you can always fall back on a personal website ...
2021-09-24 21:16:53 +0000 UTC View PostA running list. We will add on to this as time goes on!
VIRTUAL TASKS:
1. Retweeting your content on Twitter for visibility
2. Building you a website for your brand/business
3. Creating graphics for your content
4. Sending humiliation photos throughout the day of them kneeling, kissing the floor, writing your name on their body, etc
5. If your sub is into feminization, having them put on a dress, bra, panties and send a video of them modeling it
6. A ...
2021-09-08 20:40:06 +0000 UTC View Post