Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+)

HAUS OF DOMINA PUERTO RICO FEAT THE SLUMFLOWER AND MIALA DOCHE - APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN

Yasss babes!

My exciting dominatrix retreat that has been hosted in NYC and New Orleans will be coming to Puerto Rico October 2026! This retreat will feature myself, The Slumflower, and High Priestess Miala Doche.

Last year, NOLA sold out in under a month and the same is expected for Puerto Rico. To assess who is serious or not, an application is required to gain access to tickets. This is a 4 day retreat that includes a host villa, multiple workshops, meditations, luxury experie...

HOW TO BREAK YOUR FIRST PAYPIG

Today we're going to learn how to drain a man with nothing but using your words. I'm going to break it down from the initial conversation all the way to end. Please note, this is a mock scene and you can change the wording based on your unique situation/scenario. This will help you learn how to spot a real paypig, how to pace yourself during the conversation, and how to build up sub retention. It will also help you see what language actually works when talking to paypigs.

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LOW EFFORT, HIGH EARNING PRACTICES FOR YOUR FINDOM + FEMDOM BUSINESS

Here's a subject that we've talked about numerous times before in Zoom calls and within the Discord chat. In this industry, you don't want to burn yourself out by taking on huge workloads every day in hopes of having subs send and purchase your content. You want to use tactics that take less energy and give out a higher reward.

WHY THIS MATTERS:

Burnout is the number one killer of new Dommes. You don’t need to be posting, chatting, and draining energy 24/7 to ...

FINDOM ROLEPLAY SCRIPTS FOR YOUR DMS

FINANCIAL DOMINATION ROLE PLAY SCRIPTS PART ONE

(Copy + Paste these to secure the bag. You can also edit it to your liking.)

Use these to:
1. Assert dominance from the first message
2. Create a barrier to access you
3. Trigger psychological submission
4. Turn attention into action

Your first message sets the tone for how a submissive views you. If you sound unsure, they will waste your time or move on the next Domme that comes across their tim...

SECURING INITIAL TRIBUTE

How to Train Subs to Pay Your Initial Tribute

In this post we will be learning how to make tribute before conversation a rule and a requirement for potential subs. This lesson is great for those who are beginners in the Findom + Femdom space.

WHY INITIAL TRIBUTE MATTERS:

An initial tribute let's potential subs know how much you require for them to even be able to get your attention. When you allow a sub to access you unpaid, you set the to...

UPCOMING PATREON LESSONS BY TIER

We’re in the second half of the year meaning new content is coming your way here on The Sexcademy. 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

1. “The Art of the Initial Tribute”: What to ask for, how to position it, and red flags. (Findom + Femdom Tier)

2. Real DM Roleplay Scripts for Twitter, Reddit, and clips sites: Example convo starters that secure the bag (Findom + Femdom Tier)

3. Findom Affirmation Audio Drops: Voice affirmations I use to hype myself up and guarantee my success (a...

GODDESA BRUNCH ATL - 75 PERCENT SOLD OUT - IN PERSON EVENT ON AUGUST 23

The Goddess Brunch, sometimes referred to as “Goddess Brunch & High Tea,” is an upscale, intimate networking and educational event hosted by me, Mistress Marley.

Here’s what’s offered:

Gourmet Brunch & Open Bar

Attendees enjoy a curated meal and complimentary drinks in a sophisticated, relaxed atmosphere alongside like-minded individuals.

Educational Sessions

I lead discussions or workshops on topics like fi...

ZOOM CLASS: POSING FOR CONTENT WITH GODDESS KAHLEE - FULL RECORDING

Link: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/3q3qryzvxwll9p17k8ry4/GODDESSKAHLEECLASS.mp4?rlkey=rr7twr3511jmvx5wdhq1hjq7e&st=hgk4ph51&dl=0

TONIGHT ZOOM CLASS WITH GUEST INSTRUCTOR GODDESS KAHLEE

Tonight at 7 PM EST. It will be recorded!

Zoom link:

Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: Marley's Zoom Meeting

Time: Jul 29, 2025 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81801257033?pwd=64jw121QSDOi26cIiouGA4iFt1lhZb.1

Meeting ID:...

WHEN TO BLOCK SUBS

Not every submissive man deserves access to you just because they are submissive. Men are men and they are going to be time wasters no matter what setting they approach you in. It's best to know ahead of time how to deal with these fakes and flakes to protect your energy.

One of the most powerful tools in a Dominatrix can have is the BLOCK BUTTON. I personally use it like no one's business and I'm not afraid to. If you don’t learn to spot the red flags early, you’ll waste ...

ONE ON ONE MENTORING IS NOW OPEN

One on one mentoring is now open for the month of July. I only have 4 spots open for mentoring. Please choose the package that best works for you and your journey.

Link to one on one mentoring: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/courses

GODDESS BRUNCH ATL TICKETS NOW ON SALE + FINDOM BOOTCAMP OCT 2025

Goddess Brunch DC was a blast! Next up is Goddess Brunch ATL on August 23rd! Tickets will go on sale tomorrow but as a Patreon student, you get first access to purchase tickets now. All details regarding the event can be found at the link below. This event is limited to 50 seats and additional tickets will not open:

Tickets for Goddess Brunch ATL: https://www.thechocolatedom...

FOCUS GROUP: ALL ABOUT POSING FOR CONTENT - JULY 29TH WITH GODDESS KAHLEE

Goddess Kahlee, a fellow Patreon student and community organizer, will be leading our next focus group at the end of the month that will be all about posing for content. I am very excited for this class!

You can follow Kahlee on Twitter and find out more about them here: https://x.com/bigbodiedgoddes

Zoom link:

Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: Marley's Zoom Meeting

Ti...

JULY 1ST ZOOM OPEN Q&A RECORDING

LINK: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/lh2gcm0e03193x22oy84d/JULY1QUESTIONZOOM.mp4?rlkey=tks3mkdcgrbse2mfz3l8nf3no&st=c1jln0iw&dl=0

ZOOM OPEN Q&A RESCHEDULE

Tonight’s Zoom has been rescheduled to tomorrow at 7 PM EST. I’ve developed a summer cold over the weekend and have slightly lost my voice. I want to make sure that I am 100 percent prepared for you all!

The zoom link has been updated and will still be recorded for tomorrow. In the meantime, Twitter audits will still be conducted for those that signed up on the sheet.

Apologies for any inconveniences!

FINDOM BOOTCAMP COHORT 6 RETURNS IN OCTOBER

And it will be bigger than ever, this time diving even deeper into the industry.

Application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScbHTOIUNGghXZ_nyqK-RP6QWLuo2w63tnklghVOqscH6GBVA/viewform

ZOOM OPEN Q&A - RESCHEDULED JUL 1 7 PM EST

It’s been awhile since we’ve had our last open Q&A here on Patreon so I’m bringing it back. This zoom is an opportunity for you to ask any questions you may have pertaining to the industry. It will be recorded.

Marley is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: PATREON Q&A JULY 2025

Time: Jul 1, 2025 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

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NEW UPDATED + ORGANIZED TABLE OF CONTENTS + DISCORD CHAT.

HEY!

I decided to organize the Findom/Femdom Table of Contents by category so that it is easy for you all to navigate. You can still access the old TOC, but I find this one to be a bit better. I will be working on the other tiers TOC as well.

Please remember to also join the Discord chat for the Patreon: https://discord.gg/UXqADekEg2

CONSENT REFRESHER FOR 2025

Today we’re talking about CONSENT as a refresher course. Not the “maybe” kind. Not the “gray area” kind. I mean informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent.

This isn't just about safety. This is about power, ethics, and respect for the sacred dynamic we build as Dominants.

What Is Consent in BDSM?

Consent in kink means every act, whether physical, verbal, digital, or emotional is:

• Clearly ag...

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