PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Is it ethical to sleep with a married woman?

"They say a slice off a cut loaf is never missed..." -from the movie Breaker Morant

Steve Follmer

And if she has a boyfriend??? To me commitment is commitment is commitment. Where does one dray the line?

Everyone is so individual on this one, I'm not sure there are strict rules on this one.. I guess I'll have to wait until I'm older and see how it feels!

Alexander Grace

Hey Alexander, I am still womdering about the situation where the couple themselves are the ones who are seeking some "naughty" adventure and looking forward for a 3rd person to join? Some of the older guys I know told me stuff like this that as they get older (like they are in their mid 40's or above) these kind of sex rules are becoming less and less important such as imcluding not having sex with others. What's your opinion about it? Is it ethical to sleep with a married woman in these conditions? Do you think is it okay that some older couples seek adventures like this or the guys who told me this are lower quality people?

Great topic and great breakdown of it. I did some of this early on in my life. It was gross and completely low quality for all parties involved.

Most of the time I after with you. In this case though, I don't quite agree. If the man doesn't mate guard when it's necessary and she's looking for it, not my problem. If it's not me, it's gonna be someone else regardless. Though the possible mother of your child comment is accurate. I have a vasectomy though so personally that doesn't affect me but it may make sense to someone else.

Alexander Christian

6:19 I don't know about that data because it implies and requires women to be truthful about infidelity and that is asking too much, considering women are barely truthful about how many men they sleep with so in this case the data is unreliable

Your chair makes an unpleasent noise

Topics like this are the reason why you are the only "red pill aware" content creator that I actually pay to enjoy. I've always been a man with a strong moral compass and I always feel that I can consume your content without my "psychological filter" set to max!

I have mixed feelings on this: I tend to think that it is the woman's responsibility to talk to husband and fix or break the relationship / marriage and your own responsibility is to not encourage her nor mislead her into thinking having an affair is the way to go. I did sleep with a woman in a relationship, she told me after that she had a kid (I was thinking that it was a failed/insignificant relationship, it might have turned me off otherwise...). We did talked a little after and she saw my surprise about the situation. I did not ended with buyer's regret and it seems like they worked out their relationship very well (according to the couple of times I saw them a few months down the road). I realise it might be only a very rare case where it somewhat worked out not too bad... I do not know if she realised because we talked after or just had huge guilt that made her talk to her partner and both worked on their problems.

If she's on her way out, and they are not living together. Then "yes perfectly fine". But if she's still sleeping in his bed, then "No."

Wild_Card

Great video

I know the pain of being cheated on well - it’s a physical pain that takes months or years to recover from. I swore to never put someone through that pain, and it feels right.

Oliver

Do not (I repeat: Do NOT) stick your dick in low-quality. It’s never worth it. Ever.

I did this when I was in my early 20's when I would basically have sex with anything with a pulse that didn't move fast enough. I have learned enough about the damage it creates that I wouldn't participate in that at all anymore. The mere fact that she was out hunting when she was in a committed relationship is a massive turn-off. The type of woman or man who does that surreptitiously is not someone I would want to turn my back on.

Paul Meade

Good on you! I do respect you for your principled view on matters that are so quickly clouded. I've seen fornicators regret and completely agree that we should be active in setting higher standards even if only for purely selfish reasons.