PATREON EXCLUSIVE: How To Tell If Your Girlfriend Will Be A Good Mother

I LOVE it when women show their passion, whether it be her career or an intense hobby.

Suggestion for videos when you have a few key points like that: add them on the side or in the corner of the video so it's easier to follow :)

I’m 19 and an planning to get married next year. She’s only 3 months older than me.

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K M

A big red flag in the opposite direction is somebody whose words don't match their actions. Be incredibly wary of people who say they respect you but do nothing but disrespect you. This person is incapable of a healthy relationship with you, let alone a child.

Riiigghttt.... watch out little boys ... study womens nature and Solipsism’s from a MGtOw/red pill perspective in order to be woke. No effort - then just take the blue pill and learn how to tie a noose that you will hang from. https://therationalmale.com/2015/09/28/the-red-pill-parent/ And ...https://illimitablemen.com/tag/sophistry/

K M

I enjoyed this video very much and would definitely watch more videos on relationship dynamics between parents. I would say the mirror situation is true as well: women should look for men who they think would make a great dad. Most women think about the kind of mother they will be,  but fail to think of what kind of father their man will be. I've known a lot of women who just assumed that if she was attracted to a guy, that somehow meant he would be a good dad.  Like if he meets HER needs, then he will meet any future kid's needs. And they were shocked when he turned out to be a loser dad after she gave birth, even though he is behaving exactly the way he did before. I believe a man doesn't change as soon as the baby comes (at least, I've never witnessed it.) A woman usually will. Or at least she should change, in my opinion (I've seen a lot of women change for the good at first, then regressed.) But a woman who expects her man to change along with her is asking for trouble. For me, my change was immediate, as in the very second the baby came out and was placed on my chest. I felt I had prepared myself pretty thoroughly to be a good mom, so I was not surprised. The change was positive, and I knew I was a better woman for it. Therefore,  I assumed my husband was going to be immediately different and an even better man as well.  But that was dumb.  His body and brain chemistry remained the same, why would he behave differently? Just because I'm now 100% about baby doesn't mean he is, or will ever be.  My husband did change into a good dad eventually, but it was gradual and he fought it hard. So my advice to women is, if you realize you didn't vet/prepare your guy carefully enough before you got pregnant, you will need to show patience and compassion afterwards.

Jennifer Coopman

I’m 21 and I’m working towards financial freedom, I’m going this because personally I would like to be married in less then 5 years with a good woman, my dream is to have 6 to 10 kids, so your video was very very helpful thanks

orjelmort23

You wanna marry when you are 33?

orjelmort23

Yes, watching it now. Great topic. I consider myself a red-pilled man(34 years old) and I'm now aware of most pitfalls as I dodged the bullet a few times. Nonetheless, I'd still like to find someone worthy and start a family with so It's good to have this topic explored further.

Great video! Love to see more about the topic :)

Great video I agree completely I am 23 and I feel like these things are just as important for me to think about right now and 10 years from now I think you hit all the major points really well I do have one question though how does a woman's respect towards you as a man manifest? What type of behavior ls should I look for to confirm that she is respecting me as a man vs just as a person?

Tomer Shamay

Great topic, and great timing for me to hear about it!! Your point was helpful about not discounting a girl who's a hardworking professional who has a little bit of masculine ambition. I really like your point about the importance of her respecting you, not just as an individual but specifically as a man, as the one who occupies the masculine role in the relationship.

Blair

Yes.. that is why you buy them pets and house plants because if they can care for that they have a plus; unfortunatly it happens after you get married to stave off the kiddos. Not to mention that googoo gaga look with small kids - if they have that it helps. Here is the big rub ...do they put you on the mantel and turn you into the work horse and get lazy, de-focused and not as attentive to you vs the new toys ie baby/kids .... there you go boys; that is the big riddle.

K M