PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Complete Train Wreck Relationship Where Guilt = Love?

I'm almost sure by the wordings of this Ex-Boyfriend of hers that he is watching Typical Redpill Content on Youtube. I don't know why but i can deeply relate to this guy all the hurt that he is feeling and how he is trying to hurt her so she can also feel the hurt he has felt. One part of him Still loves her but the other part is deeply hurt by her betrayal. He really is torn apart by these two sides. The online redpill content is not helping. As per RP he should spin plates and clear off his sexual Debt and be a RP aware Alpha but one part of him loves her thats why he is not able to cut off his ties with her. Maybe i'm more compassionate to guy because i think would have done the same 3 years ago and tried to hurt her so that she would understand what i have been through because of her. Hopefully i more mature now (God i don't wanna find out..haha) and yes i agree the best thing for them to do is to go their separate ways and sort themselves out. My Advice to the guys is Even if you able to punish her and make her suffer its not gonna help you man. You gonna hate yourself for hurting someone that you love. As always keep the Good Content coming.

Hardik Gupta

I agree with basically all of your points on this video aside from your take on therapy. I do think their relationship was toxic and should end, yet even as bizarre and twisted the man was, his take on therapy, and more specifically couples therapy [sans the sexual client/therapist relationships, which I agree is rare], was fairly accurate. Not so much just about feminism, but there is multiple levels of toxicity within the mental health system. In other words, even if this were a couple who would benefit from being salvaged, many times the therapy ends up being at best a long term , expensive lateral move that creates a purgatory , or at worse detonates the relationship [which in this hypothetical of a salvageable relationship would be negative]. Otherwise, a well designed thought out video that removed the veils of pseudo morality from both partners.

True Love is not a feeling. Feelings come and go. True Love is a commitment to put your partner’s interests before your own. If both of you do that, the relationship is more likely to be happy and healthy.

Andy MacLeod

This "ex-boyfriend" has clearly been watching videos from some hardcore MGTOW / red pill / black pill coaches and only understands the true tenets of the red pill on a VERY rudimentary level. This has always been the problem with a lot of red pill coaches on YouTube. There's no nuance to their teachings, and they take all the shit from their own toxic relationships and dump it on their viewers.

Communicate With Confidence

My dad’s friends would have these types of relationships. I witnessed love for each other vanish into toxic relationships and unhealthy breakups. Very sad indeed to see that play out, especially when there are kids involved. It motivated me to never settle for a low quality woman. I haven’t been in a relationship thus far but, that’s a hell of a lot better than being in one bad one like that one. Jesus.

Kyle Worden

I don't agree. For me cheating is a total 100% deal breaker. He should have no respect for her. It was her own doing. He should have respected himself and gone his own way immediately. I agree that she should begin a new and very different history with other men. Good luck to both of them.

Todd McDaniels

I think your comments on this are are pretty good. Dating sucks when you don't know what you are doing or who you are. Sounds like both of these idiots don't know what they're doing or who they are? The more experience someone gets the better it gets. I agree this guy is being an asshole (assholes get their jollies shitting on others). but just bc someone acts like a stupid asshole doesn't mean they will always be the same stupid asshole. People can change. good video

Very interesting. What is puzzling me is what she sees in the guy. There are red flags everywhere. Yeah, nobody's perfect but quite simply you work through issues while respecting each other. There is no respect from him here and he does not deserve her love. Plenty of other men will respect her, and trust her, and those are the two key things that a good relationship needs and this one is missing. Good luck to her.

Andy Hyde

Way way too much drama. There is never a need for all this drama if you keep your frame and have options.

I agree with everything you said. Definitely sounds more like codependence rather than love. I’d caution her to reflect a little on the Instagram stalking because even if she corrected her earlier attention seeking behaviors- that newer behavior isn’t healthy either (which I think she recognizes). I hope she is able to close that chapter in her life and move on.

They are both selfish low-quality people who have a dysfunctional relationship. Sadly, this is very common. I've seen relationships like this so many times, and it never ends well.

Ken Schafer

When I saw 28 mins I knew we were in for something special, but this is a catastrophe. I agree with you that she needs to keep well clear of this guy and needs to educate herself on the warning signs of abusive relationships are so she doesn't walk into another one. Her caution is a good sign - she didn't dive right into it, she's looking for advice. Kudos to her for changing her behaviour; now she needs to set boundaries.

Kadz

One of the best videos on the channel, really liked both her honesty and your raw reactions to it. She can have a lot going for her, 100% agree on not letting that [insert nasty words here] hold her back.

Rickard Fors

This is a love Vendetta if I ever saw one!! They just kept traiding blows. An eye for an eye makes the world blind but I bet they're both wearing glasses and have four eyes to trade...haahah. And AG, please be more raw and unfiltered in your reaction when you do these kinds of videos because they need to know the truth be it pleasant or unpleasant for it to help them! But i agree with the fact that one of the redeeming qualities this girl has is in being honest and reaching out for help. This way we can trust that she is indeed improving herself by following you and reching out in order to get feedback. She also trusts therapy. So yeah, she has that going for her!

Ashwin Srinivas

Holy smokes!! AG, here's a million dollar idea: Collect all of these kinds of stories and become an author after you retire. Or maybe even start now!! Maybe sell it to hollywood for a ton of money!!! I stayed till the very end. Being true to the AG crew!! XD

Ashwin Srinivas