Apparently my face is a 5/10

You are a 6

Mr. K

Just Be White. The theory that caucasians are naturally the most objectively beautiful race, or that women specifically find a white man more attractive than a man of another race, if all else is equal. Therefore, to succeed at dating in the western world, you need to be a Chad rather than a Tyrone, and just be white.

Jennifer Coopman

What is JBW ?

On tinder you are nothing but your look. How could any woman learn about your great sense of humor if she swiped you left almost immediately.

"if a woman wants you only for you look" you are probably at least 8/10 chad :) And you can't "dump" a woman that already rejected you in the very first half a second BECAUSE of your look. High quality woman by definition could afford the man of good look and personality. Vice versa average looking men have literaly no chance with modern so called high quality women. Blackpill is hard to swallow.

I think it's definitely an interesting perspective, and a lot of the stuff he mentions is rooted in our biological makeup. I think his classifications and analyses make sense from an instinctual perspective, as in this is what is physically attractive to women (ideally). However, that's only part of the picture. One needs to be high quality in their character as well, not just in their looks, in order to attract a high quality female. A lot of guys want simple answers, but there really isn't any answer as simple as they think. Humans are so unique and complex, and to try to reduce us to a unidimensional variable is disingenuous, not to mention shallow and objectifying. However, as men, we need to try to be the best version of ourselves. Can we ever achieve the looks of the men whom he presented? Probably not for most men. But guess what? That doesn't matter. My one concern with such content is that it puts too much emphasis on the the looks, and the "ratings" seem to be realistic, but when one factors in other things (such as personality), these ratings become less meaningful for both men and women. Literally NO ONE is going to look like those men their entire or even most of their lives, NO ONE. So it's pointless to invest so much effort on your looks when you can invest it into your business or some sort of money-making endeavor. If a woman wants you only for your looks, dump her, period. She is undeserving of a high quality man, and instead she needs to screw the bad boys that she so craves until she vomits from her mouth. A lot of women today fit this description sadly, and even more sadly I actually don't have much sympathy for many modern women today. If anything, I sometimes chuckle when they get screwed. I know this sounds a bit harsh, but I think it's fair to say that most women today don't have sympathy for the suffering of men, so why should I bother myself with caring about the suffering of modern women? This is especially true of women living in the West, regardless of their race. I think that women today outperform men in every metric, and this is in large part because of a massive and heavy beaureacracy that supports them, while men got nil in such support. So yeah, what does my little puny support do to them besides just virtue signaling? Maybe I'll change my mind about it someday though. Nonetheless, this is how I feel these days about them.

Anosh Orahim

Look at it as you are halfway to being a 10.

Joel K. Normann

🤔 maybe there is something to that. I had one boyfriend then met my husband so I don’t rate guys on a 1-10 scale either. I tend to think he’s handsome, cute, sexy, or unattractive. Obviously people talk about scales so if I consciously think about it I can assign a rating - but it’s not a habit by any stretch.

You know something? I was chatting with my man and some friends and I was saying that I don't even have a 1-10 rating scale. I just have yes and no tbh. I have only been with one guy so maybe it is when people date lots of folk that this scale develops?? xxx

Alisha

Alex at the worst of days is a 6.5/10, best of days an 8/10. I don't think sharp features are always fawned over.

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WTF?!  This is just as bad as all the body shaming women go through, jesus! This rating system was rude and complete bullshit.  Interesting that the video maker referred to JBW.  Two out of the four people he judged did not look caucasian to me.  Yet he was comparing them to what I considered to be a white man. I come from an ethnic community and there Mark Cross would be considered the most attractive out of all 4 of them.  So the video maker didn't consider the preferences of different races/cultures.  I think this is why he is hesitant to do a video on JBW.  If he did this same comparison on Michael B Jordan or BTS, he'd come away with a very low score and people would skewer him. And rightly so! And he was also biased in favor of the Seda guy.  The Seda guy didn't have the square hairline he so highly coveted, yet he never even mentioned it during his judgment.  Why use it in scoring the other 3 but not Seda? Because he was the youngest? Same with clothing styles, Seda was the only one of the four he used clothes as a marker.  Also, Ladies correct me if I'm wrong, but don't a lot of men look just as good or better when they get older? Sean Connery, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Richard Gere come to mind, along with a number of men I've met in real life. Regarding the balding issue, the first love of my life had a majorly receding hairline quite young, like 20.  And it never bothered me.  And it still doesn't bother me on other men. I doubt there are very many women out there who thought that Bruce Willis wasn't totally sexy just because he was balding.  He eventually shaved his head, but I would never suggest to a balding man that shaving his head is preferable.  Don't do it Alexander!! Another problem is that he only judged the face (for 3 of them).  While I agree it's the most important, the other physical features factor in too.  That first impression includes the entire body, not just the face.  Regarding the entire concept of this judging system, I don't think the video maker realizes that sometimes it's someone's flaws that makes them attractive. The control model in the lower left was not attractive to me.  At all.  Todd was right in his comment above about being 'blindingly perfect'. For example, I crushed on Tom Cruise the majority of my life. But at a particular point in his career I realized I wasn't attracted to his face anymore. At first I didn't know why until I learned that he had recently and quietly gotten braces, mid-life.  He fixed his teeth, and from one movie to the next, the shape of his jaw was different, his smile was too perfect, and I hated it! I loved his slightly crooked teeth! And to me, the rating of a 5 for Alexander is blasphemous.  I won't embarrass him by breaking it down and fangirling, but I'm not ashamed to say that I'm experiencing a halo effect here.

Jennifer Coopman

Lol this rating system is just unnecessary and unpractical. All it will do is create insecurities where there need not be any. As a man, you’re more than just the physical (especially since there’s an emphasis on face), a lot of it is your overall vibe, your charisma, your smile, etc. Furthermore, one girl might think Alex is a 5, but another might just think he’s a 7/8 just cuz his particular style is a girls type. Again, stop worrying about what you can’t fix and worry about you can, and more often than not that’s enough to get you far in terms of dating life goals.

Max

Agree. As an example, he scored that Benjamin Seda guy a 7. I agree that he has a great jaw line, but something about him completely turned me off. The eyebrows maybe? And, for the first guy, I also agreed about the jaw line but really liked his eyes. They were this chocolatey brown that pull one in. Attraction is definitely not as simple as the video makes out - and it’s very varied.

I wouldn't put it that low - perhaps a 6. But Aba & Preach - some reaction Youtuber guys, did call you a hobbit when they watched your viral dating experiment, and that was very accurate :D ... The guy here judged from a "predator to prey"-standard, and yes - you're totally a "prey" looking guy - the safe bet.

These videos are just pure body dysmorphia fuel. I don't think that attraction is that simple tbh xxx

Alisha

It just seems unfair that half of men are bald by 50, in other words have something that severely handicaps them. I feel like it has something to do with the chemicals that we’re being exposed to.

I’m actually really worried about my hairline, because I’m only 20 and I’m already at Norwood 2. I’d honestly spend the money on a hair transplant if it got to that point, because I do feel like it’s a pretty small minority of women that like bald men, and I’m already not exactly a Greek god in the looks department.

Before watching, I thought I was a 5 on a really good day and thought Alex was a 7. If Alex is a 5 I'm a freaking 2.

Interesting. I didn’t like the rating of Matt Cross, mainly because I have a similarly shaped jawline [heavy sigh]. I wear a goatee to give me a chin. The content provider here seemed to misunderstand the basis of the claim that men grow more attractive as they get older. The claim isn’t based on looks. It’s based on success, maturing and getting their act together while hopefully maintaining enough looks that it doesn’t become a hindrance. The best balance is usually in the mid to late 30s. I’m a guy, so it’s difficult to speak with certainty, but the perfect Chad look he was measuring against seems a little disturbing to me. It’s like someone wearing a new pair of white sneakers that you just want to walk up to and scuff them because they are just too blindingly perfect.

Todd McDaniels

Agree 100%. My husbands hair was starting to recede pretty bad and when he started shaving it entirely was a whole different ball game. I still find a full head of hair attractive, but a shaved head gives off a different kind of masculine vibe that can still be sexy.

This is actually a pretty detailed and thought out video. Most of the criteria makes sense as to why it would be perceived at more or less attractive. However, most of these things you can’t change, barring surgery, so it’s pretty tough on confidence.

Christopher

meh - the crap about balding is garbage. Just shave it. Makes you look younger and chicks like it. I get better results with a shaved head.

I think some of the attraction to Mark Rufalo is the fame/money aspect. As far as overall attractiveness - he’s got good lips and I think his voice can be sexy as hell. Otherwise- just kinda ok 😆

Looks doesn't matter, sure. Just be confident :) LOL

What in the world? 😆 I suppose it’s easy to compare features to a standard “template” and score accordingly. Thankfully, actual attraction is not so rigid.

I have never been able to say if a man is attractive or not, except for extreme obvious cases. For Alexander I really do not know, I don't have that chip. Yet a few years ago someone posted this joke about turning male actors female: https://www.boredpanda.com/marvel-men-actors-women-faceapp-gender/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic And It helped me a lot to kind of understand, for example why Mark Rufalo is considered handsome, lol

Jimmy Madrigal

These things don’t really matter to women that much tho LOL. Just initially they do, this dude has too much time on his hands.

Wait, Alex is an Aussie? Nani?

Miguel Angel Chavez

Alex is very atractive and smart guy!

My preferences for looks tend to differ a lot from the people around me, so I've just decided to accept the fact that there's ultimately no way to be objectively attractive to everyone, no matter how many plastic surgeries and what-not you go through.

I recommend watching QOVES Studio if ur into this stuff. Great channel that breaks down looks scientifically.. and the narrator’s Aussie like you!

Oliver