PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Does Having A High IQ Remove A Woman's Instincts?

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Based on IQ tests I am somewhere in the top 1% of the population and I'm officially a MENSA member in Hungary so I think I qualify as high IQ woman. Alexander is totally on point with this video in my opinion. Of course I have instincts as everyone else but I know why I feel something and act accordingly. To be brutally honest I wouldn't have sex with a dumb chad for example even for logical and selfish reasons because I don't want to get accidentally pregnant and have a good looking but dumb kid... I want my kids to inherit my husbands high IQ and other good qualities genes because I know how much IQ is an advantage in life. For hypergamy: it affects me. When I was looking for a relationship I had a lot of options and I selected the best one based on a lot of criteria, some were selfish. But if someone "better" would come along then I wouldn't switch (the only cause could be if my husband was abusive, neglect or treat me bad) because I'm prepared that there can be a time when I can feel fake love. Stability, loyalty and safety is more important for me.

Liandra

Her instincts become sharpened and more self centered... with a high IQ not to mention empowered to be above it all. As far as sex/baby instincts... make a list if your dateables and mark their cycles on the calender... you will know when to "be around" and when not to ..haa ! ... try that instinct out hahaha

K M

I think that at 5:00 you are explaining how women should preserve themselves and the one that doesn't will get eliminated of the gene pool. I would have agreed in the statement, but now in some country women receive money from government. in 2021, even without parent most offspring survive, so with only their mother they survive and then procreate too. So my guess is the gene that will get remove from the gene pool are actually the peoples who's taking too long. The group that wait will get healthier kids tho. Btw sorry for my english grammar *just my opinion*

Do miss her, feel more blessed that she was part of my life. That she permitted me to be part of hers. With us having a more complete life together. Two very imperfect people that know they had something separate in our own lives. When we came together, we did not complete each other. We added to each other more then we brought. Do not know if I can clearly express my thoughts and feelings. Alisha thank you

Domald

I am so sorry to hear about your wife 😢 you really love her and that is beautiful. I don't know much about dating in your situation (or in general) but I wish you the best and I hope you find someone as awesome as your wife! You deserve it ✌ xxx

Alisha

A 70-year-old man that is now a widower. Had the high luck to have a wife that was a very high-quality woman / human. Beauty (annoyed by men approaching her even with her wedding-ring), very intuitive, intelligent-quick, educated-questioning and much more. Will add here she was human with her weaknesses. Never did get past the shit testing all the way. She and I know of her high emotional and intellectual intelligence did help her. Know it helped me to grow much being with her. She looked up to me and I do not know why. She was very concerned about me and women I may encounter after her death. This was not something I wonted to hear. Attempting to date some now. When with someone strive to lesson more than talk. Most of the women are divorced. They divorced their husbands after the children were out of the house off to college or work. Some say they even now think their husbands were good men and have some love for them. Somethings I hear from them looking for adventure, excitement, romantic-tingle, bored in life and boring sex and fulfillment (they do not know what fulfillment is for them). Careful here looking for a man to take command. For myself keep a low profile. When some women learn of the people I know. I become more interesting. People I know are not me. These are intelligent educated people. These are not young women. Like they were living a show until the children were out of the house. How can they do this to themselves, husband and children. Impression of the women I encounter as being intelligent and educated. Some very much so. Read this site. Think it is directed at younger people. My exploration finding some mature women that never learned from their youth. Never explored their female nature. Also here looking at myself closer in all areas. Will end with have no fantasies of my departed wife. She did set in me a standard for humanity. That I will look for in myself and possibly new relationship. Even with age and education it is-not adequate for these women. Hope I do-not sound judgemental. How should I spend my time is valuable to me. These women make me look at myself closer. Even at my age if I have some grasp of life. Need to keep looking because I even now changing.

Domald

This video is pretty spot on although I would change high IQ for high emotional intelligence xxx

Alisha

Intelligence allows for more control and more choices, but it never does change the instinct. Always choose intelligence because it will create more opportunities of all kinds.

Wow great story! :) good for you

Alexander Grace

What do you mean?

Alisha

My answer before seeing the video… no, but it can certainly help mitigate the bad ones. After watching the video, I totally agree. One personal example: One of the first concepts I heard about when watching MGTOW/ red pill content was “shit testing.” One day, something stupid happened and I got mad at my husband and stormed off. I sat there sulking and thought, if he does this in response, then it means x, if he does that, then it means y. Then the realization hit - I was in the middle of a shit test. I started thinking about why I was doing that, then shook off my unfounded hurt and anger, went back to him and had a good conversation with him about what happened and why, and apologized. I still react emotionally sometimes. I still find myself in situations where I “test.” I am not always able to fully control knee jerk reactions. But, I am much faster and better at recognizing what’s happening for what it is, moving back into a rational mindset, and resolving whatever it was the caused the knee jerk reaction. Sometimes it’s just internal work and sometimes it’s something I need to explicitly resolve with my husband.

This one was shattered for me forever recently. I had affair with married women working in very mentally demanding field (I know, I know I am amoral low quality asshole). She melted to her feelings and instincts in my grasping hands.

Ignas

Do you thing university environment has anything to do (access to people + self importance)? I live in other part the world and there is stereotype of college educated fool: person who has self inflated worth and sense of intelligence, but basically clueless about general things in life.

Ignas

It sort of painful to hear that in that example of the girl in the club. The main reaseon to not leave is a resource trade off and not because of love or loyalty really bothered me.

Ali Nassar

Oh! I just got done posting on the previous video and this one popped, and I think one of my thoughts there applies here too: seeing yourself in his videos. The example of going out and seeing another guy, but your bf is around, once again, I feel like Alexander tore a page right out of my diary because that has happened to me more than once. And I failed each time, unfortunately. Yet I was someone who was an excellent student, gobbled up books, was artistically talented, and everyone around me thought I was quite intelligent.  But I was so totally not self aware at the time.  So just because a girl is intelligent doesn't mean she's smart about herself.  As any good D&D fan knows, there's a big difference between intelligence and wisdom. I think Alexander's advice to share some things about evolutionary biology with your girl is a good idea.  But I have to admit, if my bf back then had said some of the things Alexander says, I would've been fingers in ears yelling 'LALALA'. But if my university had had a class on it, that would've been different, in my mind.  I probably would've thought of it as an intellectual adventure. Who knows, I might've become self aware in spite of myself just by being forced to study it.

Jennifer Coopman

Women must remain diligent. Having high IQ or great looks as a man is a plus but women know either consciously or subconsciously that there’s more to men than meets the eye.