PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): The psychology of why women are attracted to men who are already taken
Added 2023-11-27 04:01:47 +0000 UTC
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@Mircea N. I think I generally see the logic in what you are saying. I'm just not sure about this idea of women being left alone. As Alexander has detailed in a previous video, and as I have noted in the lives of those around me - no women is ever really single. There is always someone, be it a male friend, acquaintance orbiter, co worker or a man on a dating app who is interested, and not just for sex. By this logic, I don't know if there are any women who are actually "left alone". Maybe older woman who prioritized their careers, or who dated around perpetually, but otherwise they almost always have someone lying in wait. Perhaps we should say that if a girl has been in multiple relationships , particularly short lived ones, then she probably isn't the type of women you would want to pursue for a deep and meaningful relationship. But then again, she wouldn't necessarily qualify as a women who men "left alone" either. Just one who multiple men attempted to be with, but for whatever reason, could not make it stick.
Frank
2024-01-17 06:35:07 +0000 UTCWomen would cycle with the moon if it weren’t for electric light. Also, women’s cycles can most certainly sync, due to pheromone exposure. I found it really annoying bc I am apparently very susceptible to other women’s pheromones.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-04 06:53:29 +0000 UTCI’m going to assume it’s a ex if it’s not a group of women. Unless the women aren’t very attractive & obviously far below him even just for sex, I’m going to be inclined to think he’s a player. But then I’ve been pretty shocked & revolted by how low standards many chad players seem to have, at least on occasion.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-04 06:50:50 +0000 UTCHey Mark, can you tell me a bit more about your daughter? Is she high IQ & high functioning? Does she have any health issues, allergies etc? Being Aspie led me to being a late bloomer, especially socially, but this was probably good because it meant I wasn’t experienced & confident enough to get involved romantically as a teen. My biggest dream has always been marriage & motherhood so I was looking for a life partner early on & married young (ime most autistic women prioritise career however). I’ve tried to date neurotypical men or even just non-autists & it doesn’t work out. Only fellow Aspies for me!
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-04 06:40:38 +0000 UTCAs a man, I used to think like that when I was in my teens and early twenties, hoping to find the undiscovered special flower that somehow everyone else has overlooked. But now, after being in a relationship then married to the "flower" for 17y ... there is no such thing. The dating market is just as dangerous for men as it is for women. We, as men, should think like women. Because the women that other men leave alone... you should leave them alone as well. In this, women are smarter because they know the subjectivity of their decisions. So, there is reason in numbers. Only we men, we're dumb and foolishly smug enough to truly believe that we're smarter than the majority out there, that I as an individual, know better than 300-500 guys out there who have seen the same woman and said: no, thank you. Now... honestly, most of these advices do not apply when you're 40, especially if divorced, a parent and trying to rebuild your life. Nobody has time for social media, nobody has time for hanging out and making pictures with other women. Ef that. And the women that still have time to spy on social media or compare you with their friends...you don't want. I guess this is why it's so hard to be in the dating market now. PS: just in case, as a reminder. Always ask yourself WHY does a woman look for safety in a man? Sometimes it's to avoid predators, unhinged, general weirdoes. But MOST of the time is for them to have the liberty of being emotionally themselves in the relationship. Which means they want to be able to push a man's buttons up to breaking point and still he will never be a threat to them.
Mircea N.
2023-12-03 20:10:57 +0000 UTCWant to add to your "but" on social game. In the end, it is about satisfying a women's hypergamy. As Alexander has shared, only a high quality women can be satiated when it comes to hypergamy. Furthermore, when a man makes his masculinity unique to others, he makes himself irreplaceable when it comes to satisfying a high quality woman's hypergamy. To me, that is the end game for social game.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-03 14:39:40 +0000 UTCThe syncing of cycles is a common urban myth . I had heard that info too but i recently googled it. There is no syncibg of cycles
Peter
2023-12-03 14:28:13 +0000 UTCThat's why love having multiple hobbies. Sometimes you can find really interesting people in the least likely of places, even in a pool table bar.
Mirko Ruhl
2023-12-03 14:25:34 +0000 UTCLike Alexander said. Pics of you hanging out with female friends, not player party pics.
Tom WWW
2023-12-01 21:38:04 +0000 UTCI agree it is negative, however I think it is so hardwired most of the time its suboncious. I have had a massive amount of experience with this. It's so real.
Tom WWW
2023-12-01 21:36:26 +0000 UTCHow do you see your Aspergers affecting your dating life and relationships. I am curious because my eight year old daughter has autism.
Mark Bryski
2023-11-30 17:40:12 +0000 UTCGotta throw this out there... If women at work eventually sync up on their ovulation cycles, imagine preselection at play when all the women are wearing their ovulation goggles. I believe I had this experience.
Mark Bryski
2023-11-30 17:31:54 +0000 UTCSocial game is valuable and effective in so many ways. But its way easier said than done. Work etc takes up alot time Finding the time develop a active social life if like a 2nd job. Been tentatively working towards it for almost a year. But my 7-5 takes up alot of effort, energy and time
Peter
2023-11-30 16:17:59 +0000 UTCWhen I was young, preselection scared the shit out of me. I wasn't aware of it or familiar with it. So, when I experienced it, I sometimes felt overwhelmed; confused; or even guilty. Now that I understand it, I get a smirk on my face whenever I see it happening.
Mark Bryski
2023-11-30 13:56:05 +0000 UTCI think it’s great for men to talk to women more . But I don’t like the idea of a guy having a bunch of pics of himself with women on his social media. Then again I wouldn’t want a guy with that kind of social media. A interesting, witty Twitter or Telegram account, yes. Instagram with lots of pics of women &/or female connections gives me player vibes.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-11-30 06:08:00 +0000 UTCI don’t relate to preselection or the female/group consensus - in fact, I have the opposite mindset. The less history a man has, the better, & it’s simply wrong to pursue men who are taken. I dismiss them from my mind. And I won’t agree with something just because the majority want me to - it makes me suspicious. Maybe it’s my Asperger’s? I also have never feared men.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-11-30 05:55:47 +0000 UTCWhen I made a joke to the waitress, my ex thought I was flirting and got angry with me. But in my mind I was going for a laugh
Alexander Knight
2023-11-27 14:29:57 +0000 UTCA woman sees a man who makes another woman very happy, and this makes her want to be that woman. Makes sense, he's a proven asset and some women will be cut-throat to remove and replace that happy woman with herself. Women engage in comparative analysis all the time. The idea that men aim to be top dog is a tiny sputtering candle compared with a woman's desire to be the envy of her social circle, and that envy burns like a nuclear reactor in meltdown.
Jon of Arc
2023-11-27 07:43:46 +0000 UTC
