PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women need help from trusted men in judging the quality of potential men to date
Added 2023-12-02 00:21:57 +0000 UTC
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You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
Simon
2024-02-06 16:00:54 +0000 UTCUnfortunately family especially female relatives can be very petty. I wouldn’t risk it as a general rule. I consider myself reasonable & caring but I don’t think I’m a particularly good source of romantic advice to men which I state if my advice is requested & I provide it.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-07 11:27:26 +0000 UTCHe said explicitly in the video that mums are terrible for this because they don't want to lose their baby boy. It seems like the key is a woman that you trust but don't see very frequently and has not got strong bonds with you.
Dan
2023-12-06 04:34:39 +0000 UTCHow about asking one’s mother? (If the answer is “it depends”, then how can we determine if our moms are a good option to ask?)
Mack T
2023-12-06 01:35:07 +0000 UTCThey too often ignore the instincts they don’t like/that inhibit them. So in essence you are exactly right.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-04 06:38:34 +0000 UTCWhat about asking a sister? Surely family would want what is best for you.
Dan
2023-12-04 06:36:56 +0000 UTCI don’t agree that all women are so materialistic (though you can’t be a lazy loser). But I don’t recommend you ask women to vet potential partners.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-04 06:35:02 +0000 UTCBy the way, I found your comment to your friend interesting. Having more options through improvement does change the game.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-03 22:16:56 +0000 UTCI don't agree with you. I believe she is generalizing. However, I do believe your characterization is at the root of her psychology and is floating around her subconscious. There may be times where there is just enough self awareness where she will use it to try and hook someone into trying to meet a dysfunctional challenge. I will run into this on Facebook dating where the match will start with "I have given up on dating". Classic co-dependent challenge.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-03 22:14:30 +0000 UTCShe’s not generalizing men. She’s only talking about the men who she sees, likes, wants, etc. The rest of men don’t even register to her.
Bill Washinski
2023-12-03 22:03:48 +0000 UTCDan please no. This is Alexander’s worst advice and in the history of bad ideas, asking female friends to vet for you is the worst. I tried this once. It turned out that the girl who I asked to vet found every flaw & some that didn’t exist. Turned out, it made her jealous and didn’t want to “lose” me. Vetting women isn’t that hard. It’s actually simple, especially when you’re in an established state. Remember this rule—women don’t love you. They love the way you make them feel. Women will never love you for you. They just won’t. You have to add value. Money & resources are a requirement. The level of both is flexible depending on the woman, but if you think you’re gonna get her and be broke with no future, yeah, contrary to what you might believe (“Chad & Tyrone”), that doesn’t last. Understand that financial stability is a must have requirement, where men get confused is thinking it’s the only requirement. Attractive women get my attention, and believe me, it’s important. But the same thing applies, it’s not the only thing. Women’s “ulterior motives” are so transparent, they will out themselves if you just let them. My recommendation, if you can’t vet yourself yet, make yourself better. Get more money, a nice place, savings, in shape. Man the women will come. It will be easy than you ever imagined. Just make yourself what they want from basics, and you’ll be having enough options that it’s easy to vet.
Bill Washinski
2023-12-03 20:07:55 +0000 UTCShe is out of the picture.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-03 13:04:23 +0000 UTCIt seems odd to me that, women with all their very developed instincts such as hypergamy, shit tests, supposedly very good ability to read body language and tone. Would be so bad at telling a bad man from a good man. Like to me that just seems like the women that go with bad boys do so because they want to.
L P
2023-12-03 11:30:28 +0000 UTCI have news for you. I am a solo parent because I was a poor judge of character. Men blame women because men don't want to acknowledge they are a poor judge of character.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-03 02:29:15 +0000 UTCGeneralizing men as deplorable is the social norm. The distance to the ground from that high horse must look awfully freightening.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-02 13:50:20 +0000 UTCDo women really hate men? I don't think so, but there is a lot of hate going around in general. The word "hate" used to be a powerful word, now it's thrown around like a mild adjective for things that annoy and irritate. A YouTuber named Courtney Ryan did a video recently, and while her stuff is not the same caliber as Alexanders, she made a good point that women are comparing themselves to the rich and famous and getting pissed off that they have to accept the ordinary, and that they are ordinary. I think when young women look out into the internet and realize they are ordinary, that's what they really hate.
Jon of Arc
2023-12-02 10:20:21 +0000 UTCAn in depth video explaining how you would go about vetting the boyfriend of your daughter would be helpful.
Dan
2023-12-02 01:10:28 +0000 UTCI definitely need a female to vet whoever my future girlfriend is. With all the horror stories, it is essential to know that this is a good woman and not someone out to take advantage of men.
Dan
2023-12-02 01:09:13 +0000 UTC
