PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Please change the way you dress in public - A letter to your girlfriend
Added 2023-12-21 04:00:02 +0000 UTC
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I appreciate this answer 💪💪💪
Peter
2024-01-05 05:46:31 +0000 UTCThat sounds accurate, & knowing is the first step - good luck Peter!
RhodiumMaiden
2024-01-04 12:10:49 +0000 UTCAka my ex didn’t respect me. But i knew that already she never submitted. 🤷♀️ a lack of leadership through not unde my self or standing strong with myself I recently have gotten to be at a self help group for adhd and so much of my personality (including rejection sensitivity disorder aka being easily offended) I havnt been diagnosed but it would seem as far as i can tell im neurodivergent too. A biological function of brain chemistry, impaired dopamine signaling. Explains a lot. Doesn’t change the fact i need to deal with it. And but atleast i have a rough map of the terrain i need to cross🤷♀️
Peter
2024-01-03 18:39:51 +0000 UTCWomen naturally change for men they respect.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-01-02 12:00:14 +0000 UTCSeeing her ability to grow and willingness to change for me for the better is about at much of a compliment you can give yourself and me. I How many women are willing to change for their man? she really has to be into you that’s a compliment i think!!!!.
Peter
2023-12-31 05:30:22 +0000 UTCMe too. In my 20 no one wanted me. So 🤷♀️
Peter
2023-12-31 05:25:59 +0000 UTCMy thoughts exactly. I don't have time to explain every single detail of why it's not appropriate or respectful to dress provocatively if she's in a relationship with me. That should be common sense, as common as me not entertaining different options while I'm with her. I shouldn't expect her to explain to me why I need to be loyal to her and not flirt with other women. This topic is less based on communication skills and has far more to do with her ethics and morals. If your morals aren't aligned, don't waste your time dating or even associating with her.
Anosh Orahim
2023-12-30 01:50:54 +0000 UTCAgee with EC, I feel the same & admire men who restrain their sexuality & avoid casual sex. Manwhores are gross to me.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 02:54:53 +0000 UTCMany, certainly, but not all.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 02:52:04 +0000 UTCWe need to also be mindful that women dress for women as well, not only to compete with them, but also to be included and accepted in a social group. We had a woman in one of the companies I worked at and she showed no skin but also left nothing to the imagination wearing skin tight clothes head to (camel) toe. Also, many if not most men have developed x-ray vision and can see through clothes anyway. It's complicated for sure. Women may have to make big changes to their wardrobe to accommodate their bf. What's the opposite for men? Hot guys wearing tank tops, short shorts, skin-tight pants and shirts. When a guy dresses like that, he's sending messages to women and to other men as well, both in a competitive context and for inclusion into groups. We've all seen groups of guys who are all tall, fit and handsome, and it's a self-selected group of guys.
Markus Halvorson
2023-12-22 09:25:19 +0000 UTCThat is good to hear from a woman. It sometimes feels like women don't value sex in the same way. Many modern women talk so callous about it and shame you as immature or sexist when you disagree. But I've long suspectet that this is mostly a cope by women who have been hurt. If you separate sex from love the modern dating scene becomes much more endurable.
Hermann
2023-12-22 09:23:10 +0000 UTCI agree and it is one of my regrets that I did not marry young. However, the reality is I was neither mature nor attractive enough to marry a quality girl at that age. And yes, I do intend to date a younger woman. But there is a limit to what is reasonable. Mid-twenties would be ok for me. But a 21 year old? Sure she would be attractive, but I think that is just too much difference.
Hermann
2023-12-22 09:15:20 +0000 UTCI love this clever approach... directly, it helps guys to send a particular message to a woman that gets an important conversation started, and indirectly it helps men hear things from a different angle that they may not have "heard" otherwise and teaches them how to start conversations like this on many other topics.
Markus Halvorson
2023-12-22 09:12:31 +0000 UTCVery well put.
Jon of Arc
2023-12-21 19:48:20 +0000 UTCBy the way, it would be great if you can make a video how to adress this issue. I´m in my mid 30s and do not want to date a 20 year old girl who could be my daughter. I understand that a 30 year old women will have a sexual past, but how can I deal with that emotionally? I really struggle to build an emotional connection with women for this reason. I had a similar experience to what I described above and it absolutely devastated me emotionally. I do not want to feel that ever again.
Hermann
2023-12-21 17:40:12 +0000 UTCThis is all the worse when her previous partners where really of lower quality and on top she was actually more physically attractive than she is now. I think this is a large portion of red pill hate about "bodycount": You worked for many years to become a man that she is interested. You went through years of loneliness and sexual frustration. You dated her for weeks and months to build an emotional connection and finally get her sexuality as the final prize and expression of love. All of that feels so bitter, when you know that other guys who were lower quality men got technically a better "prize" (her being younger and more attractive) for much less effort. You just can´t help but feel betrayed and scammed.
Hermann
2023-12-21 17:28:48 +0000 UTCThe part about how special her sexuality is to you really hit hard for me. I think this is also the reason why I feel so hurt by a woman´s past. Sex provides both biological and emotional satisfaction. The emotional satisfaction is primarily driven by exclusivity. The more exclusive her sexuality is to you, the more special the act is. The more it feels like an expression of love.
Hermann
2023-12-21 17:15:56 +0000 UTCI learned something important from this video. When I see a woman who dresses revealing in public, it feels conflicting because it's obviously arousing, but ultimately, it is unsettling because it reveals desperation, that urgent need for attention, and as a guy, that is a serious turn-off. I didn't realize that I felt this way until you said it.
Jon of Arc
2023-12-21 08:02:26 +0000 UTCI suspect that any woman that actually needs this spelled out to her isn't likely to be worth pursuing or keeping.
Jon Wilkinson
2023-12-21 05:47:35 +0000 UTC
