PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women who shame men for having hobbies
Added 2024-04-04 07:00:02 +0000 UTC
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That sounds so wholesome, I'm happy for you man. Hope your kids grow up to be great gamers :)
Rickard Fors
2024-06-01 09:04:07 +0000 UTCAnd in time.you will play games with your kids... I've been playing loads of Minecraft with my kids, especially my daughter, and occasionally play Fortnite with my son (tomorrow we will play a couple of rounds with a friend and his son) .
Nikolaj Larsen
2024-05-31 20:54:57 +0000 UTCmy partner does this to me, she keeps asking me "how do you do it" and saying "i could never!" but what she doesnt know is that its a constant struggle to be improving oneself and often times it really is not that easy juggling life and hobbies we do it because men feel the need to do something to create value and be seen as useful
Timothy Gutierrez
2024-04-11 00:18:38 +0000 UTCno all good, yours is a nuanced take, makes sense :)
Alexander Grace
2024-04-08 03:34:21 +0000 UTCHey Alex, I want to hear your opinion on this take. In the beginning of your video you talked about how a high quality women should feel towards her partner achieving things. I come from the stance that I don't really judge my partner on the emotional reactions she has. My measurement for the quality of the women around me is how they deal with the emotions that come up for them. There has been some jealousy in my relationship but my partner expressed it and framed it as something she was going through and wanted help with working through. I don't hold it against her in the slightest I think this was the high quality thing to do. What do you think do our perspectives contradict each other?
Tomer Shamay
2024-04-07 19:51:05 +0000 UTCI keep reading it. Most for women. Now they need that excitement that comes from the unknown and uncertainty to his feelings or intentions. For men Iβve read, they say you come close and want tobe near and then retreat to the woods. And repeat But i have in the not felt closeness or intimacy hindering the diserire or freshness or wanting in my relationship. But i put a lot of personal self worth on the idea of being wanted. I was codependent i guess. So for me, wanting alone time is foreign. have that me time as a !requirement! Or as aphrodisiac , is also foreign to me
Peter
2024-04-07 06:19:04 +0000 UTC19:35 you speak about a perspective shift, facilitating more desire by looking at someone doing the thing which is different from the everyday drudgery. Itβs one of the methods frequently recommended by relationship therapist like Ester Perel. You donβt need someone new in bed for it to be exciting again a new perspective on that someone like when you see them in a band or in their element or something that isnβt there every day that can work too.
Peter
2024-04-07 06:11:02 +0000 UTCI love when men have hobbies. π Usually there is a good amount of overlap because I have many of my own, but having a men show off his superior skills/teach me is very appealing, & itβs so important that we each have our domains.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-06 10:28:43 +0000 UTCI'm not sure I fully agree with the evolutionary explanation you give, whereby males tend to do "more stuff" as an aspect of mating strategy--I think men tend to do more stuff that serves to foster and develop their ability to protect and provide. It's just that this "stuff" inherently tends to look more ACTIVE than the stuff women do that tends to be the kind that fosters nurturing and supporting--in contrast, this latter stuff looks tame and safe compared to the rough and risky of the former. Not MORE stuff by one over the other, just DIFFERENT stuff.
Joseph Omega
2024-04-05 09:41:12 +0000 UTCCodependency seems to me to go both ways. Men and women both move towards it. But it is a cancer. Having βme timeβ keeps your relationship fresh. Working opposite shifts can help. When you work at the same company, or you both work from home, it can put a real strain on the relationship.
Eric Linden
2024-04-04 13:05:09 +0000 UTCMany women are addicted to partner shaming. They love likes and comments more than they love their partner.
Eric Linden
2024-04-04 12:54:49 +0000 UTCFuuuuuckβ¦. Alexander... you described my relationship failures. You first described my failed marriage. If that was not enough, you then went on to describe an issue that relates to the woman for who I ended up jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire for because she bore my children. Yep. It was pure co-dependency. I am grateful that I worked on myself to take care of how I was contributing to this problem. As for paying attention to the red flags, I would suggest taking it one step further and say pay attention to how she talks to her friends and family about you. You will never know exactly what she tells them. But, when you meet them, you will get a feel for how she talks about you by how they ask you questions and respond to you. Great suggestion on being focused on values and using them to set boundaries. In fact, getting mutually agreed upon relationship standards is gold. A relationship without values is a relationship without worth.
Mark Bryski
2024-04-04 10:57:50 +0000 UTCThey look like they're having an awesome time tbh, I play a ton of games with my friends :)
Rickard Fors
2024-04-04 09:08:00 +0000 UTC
