PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Stop trying to make women's lives perfect
Added 2024-04-28 05:00:02 +0000 UTC
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Although I do concur it's best to know one that wouldn't ask because it seems outlandish. But i want to.. :)
iamsamoth
2024-06-05 14:44:15 +0000 UTCI guess it is a self fulfilling prophecy, but I do desire to spoil, and so eventually even the best of it would give way. The balance may be too precarious. I wouldn't want someone who couldn't tie shoes, but I do want to do it, it were just untied.
iamsamoth
2024-06-05 14:42:59 +0000 UTCIt was the assessment of the first lady, or maybe my failure to read it correctly was the driving force in my desire to comment.
iamsamoth
2024-05-06 04:19:57 +0000 UTCSame I do feel the first woman was more considered in her place, she well understood I believe that she was fulfilling his desires as he saw fit. It seemed less on it's face exploitative than many many of the other relationships, and situations I've seen in learning about this 'area' on you tube. I only bumped into Alexander's work a few days ago. The first lady seemed much much more authentic in her understanding. It's just he actually was a super great guy. I hope I have his luck. Or maybe my radar is just that much shite. I suppose that is the bigger reason I am here. ;p
iamsamoth
2024-05-06 04:18:08 +0000 UTCI have a motto which is ‘any hesitation means no’. So if you’re not sure if a certain behaviour is acceptable - that’s hesitation, so it’s not. And probably not worth putting up with. This is not to imply that people need to be perfect, but if you aren’t sure how you feel about a trait - hesitation means no. A good partner you are enthusiastic about & you acknowledge their flaws but they don’t overly bother you.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-05-05 21:07:28 +0000 UTC@RhodiumMaiden Thinking about it, she wants me to behave like her parents, and they are overprotective, this is why I say she is is spoiled. Also, BINGO, she did this often. Yeah, there is a lot more information, but it´s too much to write here. What´s done is done, now I have some more peace of mind. I did like her a lot, this is why it was a hard decision, but i´ll get over it soon.
GUNSHIP
2024-05-03 01:06:34 +0000 UTCHard to say from just this, but I certainly lean towards agreeing that she’s too spoiled. She definitely overreacted and it sounds like that was common - you shouldn’t have to put up with that, especially if she takes it out on you & doesn’t even realise there’s an issue with her behaviour.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-05-03 00:37:50 +0000 UTCYeah, I just literally agree with everything you said but feel strongly about AT so I had to specify. It’s me being autistic not implying you support him. :)
RhodiumMaiden
2024-05-03 00:32:25 +0000 UTCYeah, I did. She is spoiled by her parents, with a victim and princess mentality, too hard.
GUNSHIP
2024-05-02 23:57:06 +0000 UTCBased on your story, it seems to me a mundane incident. I should think that a modern empowered female lawyer should be able to handle it with great facility. It's inevitable that, as a couple, you will encounter more trying circumstances in the future, so if this is how she handled the incident, it does not bode well for the future. Also, if she threatened to break up your relationship over this, best to collect yourself and be ready to walk away.
Hyperion
2024-05-01 08:39:06 +0000 UTCDon't accept women who disturb your peace with their drama. A woman is meant to enhance man's life... not detract from it.
MB
2024-05-01 06:36:38 +0000 UTCI carefully haven't said anything about him
Denes Kellner
2024-04-30 22:26:55 +0000 UTCMy first boyfriend didn’t know how to peel an orange 😂 Can’t understand wanting a guy to do everything for me - I like to be the caretaker providing most of the service! Except for lifting heavy things, plumbing, fixing a car & driving. I love men who do those things for me!
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-30 21:59:00 +0000 UTCAgree except AT is gross.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-30 21:53:32 +0000 UTCUnfortunately it's over, this is not the first time she does something like this, and she never takes responsibility for what she does, ever. She said that for some things she doesn't have to ask, that I should know what to do and just do it, but I don't think this is one of those cases. Feels like her parents have raised her in a bubble and need me to do the same.
GUNSHIP
2024-04-30 16:32:21 +0000 UTCSeems like a miscommunication on her part, how long have you been dating? It is up to her to communicate if she wanted you there but I would say going forward if something similar happened that you should offer to go to her (if she is someone you care about) 😊
Alisha
2024-04-30 15:38:28 +0000 UTCI have a question, if anyone can help me, or even Alex if possible. The girl I was dating got really agry with me over a situation, this is what happened: We are both lawyers, she works by herself (made her own office), and I have mine with my father and my brother plus some employees. Her phone got stolen some days ago and she seems very fragile over events like this, involving money (when she lost her job it was like she lost her life a year ago). She made a report for the police of the lost phone, that caused her line to be blocked by the police. With a new phone in hand, but a blocked line, she had to head for the police station to request the blocked line to be released. At the police station, the deputy thought she was workign for the robber, to get the stolen phone working again and told her she was going to get arrested if she doesnt prove that she was the owner of the stolen phone. She started to panick. She was telling me this over the phone as things were happening and I told her that the deputy was just trying to scare her, to see if she was telling the truth, she wasn´t getting arrested over this, no way. She managed to get the copy of the receit of her old phone and got what she wanted in the end. Her parents when they heard the same story she told me over the phone rushed over to her, but I didnt, and for this reason she almost broke up with me, started to say she didnt want to see me anymore. I got pissed off and after some arguing I decided to walk away. That´s the story, does it fit in this video? Is she too spoiled by her parents? Or was I just dismissive? It´s true I didn´t offer to go over there but she didn´t ask either.
GUNSHIP
2024-04-30 14:23:43 +0000 UTCOnly a woman who treats her man like a King deserves to be treated like a queen by him... noting that he must maintain his role as king.
MB
2024-04-30 08:38:20 +0000 UTC@Peter thank you ❤
Rae
2024-04-29 09:40:30 +0000 UTC@EC thank you ❤
Rae
2024-04-29 09:40:08 +0000 UTC@EricLinden you're right but at the same time, we have to recognise that men are not her target audience. Because she's a young woman, her target audience will also be late teens to young women, she would words things it a way that appeases her demographic even if that means exaggerating how she is treated in her relationship and coming across poorly to the people outside of that demographic. I don't agree with it but that's how we are Lol. As women, we love to show off the treatment that we get from our men to our girlfriends so we sometimes exaggerate things to the extreme to make our lives seem more "perfect". But what I don't understand atm is why the current trend of exaggerating things is "how much of a simp my man is with me" 🤷♀️
Rae
2024-04-29 09:39:45 +0000 UTCTreating your partner like a queen needs to be a special thing, not an expected thing. The goal is for both partners to be CAPABLE of doing everything. Then they can divide tasks.
Eric Linden
2024-04-28 12:33:00 +0000 UTCIt is hard to get the whole story in one clip. The first woman would do well to mention some of the things she does for him every day as well. It’s fine to do little things for each other every day as long as it isn’t totally one sided. She could also say that she hates filling the car with gas, so he does it MOST of the time.
Eric Linden
2024-04-28 12:20:42 +0000 UTC"True love is about giving and receiving". Great gauge to keep in one's back pocket to size up how a relationship is evolving.
Mark Bryski
2024-04-28 11:32:16 +0000 UTCI enjoyed your comment 👍 ghe wording and the thoughts.
Peter
2024-04-28 09:15:17 +0000 UTCWeee that’s some beta maxxing right there 🤣
Peter
2024-04-28 09:12:02 +0000 UTCHello Alex. I agree with most of your comments except for one thing. The woman in the first video is actually quite decent. She is a qualified nurse and her partner Kevin (they're not married yet) is a doctor in training. At the moment because he's completing his recedency, she is the breadwinner. She's making money from her nursing job as well as social media. She also financially provides for both of her parents full time. Furthermore, she's seems very aware of the privilege that she has in her relationship at present. She is open to being a stay at home wife once they're married and having children which would obviously change their current relationship dynamic. The other women on the other hand, I cannot support them in anyway possible especially the woman who's husband "kisses her feet". She demeans her husband constantly for his short stature (cause she's above average height as a woman) and takes advantage of his kind and gentle nature which pisses me off. I cannot bare to watch their videos, she treats her husband like a child. It makes me angry as a woman who is very reciprocal when it comes to servitude and gestures and when I see these type of women treat those type of men like slaves. Personally, I have never had a relationship where everything was made easy for me and I didn't have to lift a finger and I was treated like a "helpless queen or princess" but if I was to come across that, I know I would enjoy it at first because its a new experience then I would start to resent the man if he was caring for me in a way jepredises his wellbeing and that shows lack of respect or self worth for himself. I think a good mix is best. No healthy woman can love and be at peace with a man that is not giving in some way long term (because as women, we are receivers. It is in our nature) and at the same time, she cannot love a man that lacks boundaries or respect for himself. Yes, I want the flowers, the surprises and gifts etc (it keeps the romance going) but I also want a man that will hold me accountable when I am doing something wrong and not carrying an equal weight in the relationship. Balance is always key. And a woman that expects everything to be handed to her on a silver platter simply because she is "female" is not a true woman but a ticking time bomb. And guys, its not worth it. No matter how attractive she is.
Rae
2024-04-28 08:27:57 +0000 UTCThese men are operating from a hidden scarcity/fear. They think that when they will do all these things to spoil their girlfriends, the girlfriend will become so dependent that she will not be able to replace them. The trick is to do only a tiny thing like this here and there unexpectedly, then she will want more but will be left puzzled when it comes and will be happy when that happens. Doing these everyday will either make them become ungrateful if you don't or will make them get bored with you.
Martin Hatala
2024-04-28 07:06:05 +0000 UTCThese men are just submissives. We've seen stories like this, usually they end the same way. No woman is a natrual born leader; they enjoy it for a while and then they leave for someone like Andrew Tate and clean and cook in the rest of their lives. Happily. Poor subs. They will never understand what's going on.
Denes Kellner
2024-04-28 07:02:56 +0000 UTCThis is a hard video to stomach. Treat a woman like a queen, and she will treat you like a peasant. Sure, a woman may relish on the initial phase of being pampered, even to go so far as to give her doormat man that "attaboy" for which he so misguidedly craves, but days are numbered before she grows to resent her man devoid of boundaries and self-respect. These men in the clips will have a day of reckoning, and it will be a doozy as there'd be nothing left in these women's estimation of their men but disdain and contempt.
Hyperion
2024-04-28 05:43:41 +0000 UTC
