PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Why does no one talk about femininity anymore?
Added 2023-02-21 08:55:59 +0000 UTC
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I was a pretty unattractive kid (as a result of medication, long story) so the first time I ever experienced being physically desirable was when I was 20 just a couple of years ago. needless to say that made it difficult to feel like guys would give me the time of day required to see all the good qualities (because mostly they didn't). I don't really blame anyone for it, but it created a situation in which I felt like my femininity was never really acknowledged by others so I had to develop a strong internal sense of worth to even see myself as a worthy woman- luckily I never lowered my standards for anyone:) also I was pretty often ridiculed for liking "boy's stuff" as a kid (and still do!) so I came to a conclusion that I must just be a tomboy, but pretty quickly I realized that none of that stuff was inherently masculine\feminine, it's just that I was way ahead of my environment. I love the way I engage with stereotypically masculine interests in my own feminine way. and i'm glad I never gave up on it just because of the judgement and never let it convince me that I wasn't feminine.
Eshkar freedman
2023-03-14 19:03:34 +0000 UTCMaturity for all of us regardless of gender is knowing when to tap into the right skillset from somewhere in the masculine--feminine spectrum to be successful in all kinds of situations.
Frank Harris
2023-03-09 02:40:47 +0000 UTC
