PATREON EXCLUSIVE: How should monogamous men cope with their desire for sexual novelty?
Added 2023-03-29 04:00:02 +0000 UTC
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If you are looking for a woman like that you are best trying the kink community but don’t be surprised if she wants it open on both ends, most women wouldn’t be happy with it being one-sided. You could try and find one but even then if you fetishise a woman for that then I doubt she will be happy. Best looking for a submissive who is bi and into threeways with women
Alisha
2023-03-30 16:37:47 +0000 UTCWe were witnesses to a rare moment of Alex catching Matt and making him frustrated. It was entertaining ;)
Cezary Skoczek
2023-03-30 06:53:47 +0000 UTCI hope this doesn't sound weird, but I want a relationship like we are agreeing to we arent forcing each other to stay sexually commitment for death to us part. But I want obviously resources are secure, emotional attachment is secure, etc all these things cannot be stolen away in mister/mistress sexual relationships. And selectivity (we would sleep w each other so much we would probs only rarely divest briefly from each other and would ensure the other person is decent, clean, etc) covertness would be highly valued as well because it would be distasteful to wave around that information in the relationship. I hope I find a special woman who I fit with who might be down for this, but im not betting on it cuz those might be viewed as crazy standards. What im planning is just the usual man who marries up for starting family+kids around age 35-50. Im just enjoying sexual encounters right now with women who I have vetted and qualified, I feel bad when they ask for commitment but how does that make sense on my end, especially with the literal hours & sweat I had to give to become a man with some options, as well as marriage courts in the U.S? If i did get married would make more sense to go to the Phillipinnes or Latin America or Europe, 2 other regions my family holds passports in. Definately becoming a multilangual world citizen as well as learning about how I as a man who takes care of my fitness can extend his biological clock for intimate relationships with possible conception, it made me stress a lot less about dating as a man fresh out of college on the salary grind. Im not optimistic i will meet a woman open to the secure attachment style open relationship im looking for, but a life of good sexual encounters in my 20s and 30s, but still enjoying the life of settling and a family around age 40 sounds like an amazing story well lived.
Lil Broomstick
2023-03-30 04:06:17 +0000 UTCYes I agree Matt and Alexander are speaking too much from personal experience that does not represent the general case. What about people in their 40’s? Could be a divergence in sexual libido or a whole host of other factors. Many women let their men stray because this allows both the goals of the man and woman to be met: sexual novelty for the man and love, security etc. for the woman. I would hesitate to call such a women low quality women unless it is a requirement of a high quality woman to have high libido and a great body.
Andy
2023-03-29 17:56:43 +0000 UTCI’d say I’m pretty masculine in my sexuality - I have a high libido, active sexuality, & I find a lot of men attractive. But I’m VERY happy being in a monogamous relationship. I find it hard to imagine any decent woman desiring novelty as much as most men do. Maybe r strategists.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-03-29 17:11:11 +0000 UTC
