PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Are pretty women better girlfriends?
Added 2023-04-11 05:00:01 +0000 UTC
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This is interesting. See i have a slightly negative connotation to extreme conventionally attractiveness. I see that i my mind immediately goes to rejection. High maintenance. Into jerk guys. Entitled. I really ought to gueck out if that is true. But then again i dont kkow enough of them. That said also i seem to have a liking for the girl next door, like 70% good looks. But also 75% awesome personality Maybe its because i dont aee them as an option, or maybe its that i simply dont puke the megan foxes of the world. Its hard for me to say coz so much plays into if i find them attractive (and a lot of it, probably 99% of it, probably has to do with me being able to imagine a positive relationship with them. ) But then again the cute girl next door prom star look. It aint bad, but again the imaginary situation of LTR is in the end where my ming goes. There us something that i cant yet do, and that is selfishly take. Take her body and just do with it as i feel. I dont think i could litteraly just fook that pretty putty and be done with it. And that where i see looks being king. 🤷♀️
Peter
2023-06-20 12:35:04 +0000 UTCI’m not afraid to acknowledge that looks matter even if I can be accused of being shallow. Even though looks may fade, you’ll still pass them onto your children and I’m a strong believer in ageing gracefully. I also slightly judge people who fail to make an effort to be attractive as I know how much it can improve your life in all sorts of ways. Your health improves, the way people treat you improves and the way you treat yourself improves. Of course you can be unattractive and be a good person and being attractive is a poor indicator of character, but I think everyone, particularly in their youth should make an effort to be attractive.
Thomas Owen
2023-04-16 15:41:25 +0000 UTCI’d reluctantly chose 50:50, but I don’t think I could be happy in a relationship with a woman in the 50th percentile of look and personality. The average woman is overweight and has a 50% chance of a failed marraige. My only hope would be if the percentiles were constructed by other men who might miss women who are wholesome and pretty in a more understated way.
Thomas Owen
2023-04-16 15:21:09 +0000 UTCI did the exercise of splitting the percentages before I heard any of your answers and I got 40% looks and 60% personality. I look at my relationship and over the year and a half that we had together, my girlfriends looks didn't really change but her personality did in a lot very positive ways. We are more fit for each other now personality wise and I feel like with personality I have more agency to affect it while looks are just kind of there. Also my girlfriend said that she is a 70% on personality and 30% looks since she feels less agency regarding to personality in a relationship (she has less control on the direction and doesn't feel like she can really change the man she is with) and also that demeanor affects her attraction more than just pure looks.
Tomer Shamay
2023-04-12 21:26:05 +0000 UTCIt's difficult to define looks hey. Are we talking about the hard-coded genetic looks or lifestyle factor looks (overall health/fitness). Like Matt I have an overwhelming appreciation for a "healthy" look and believe I can compromise to a large degree on the genetic factors. Likewise when it comes to personality I believe I'm more attracted to an overall "healthy" personality once you factor in all the idiosyncrasies. Of course I'm also very much predisposed to similar or complimentary personality factors (values, interests, femininity etc) relative to my own personality. As I'm prioritising the health factor I'd go for a 50/50 split and want to do everything in my power to maximise both aspects by keeping us both fit, healthy, happy and always learning.
Steven
2023-04-12 03:25:37 +0000 UTC
