PATREON EXCLUSIVE: How to handle a woman's embarrassing confession on a date
Added 2023-05-17 01:38:35 +0000 UTC
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Spot on. The I’m “not looking for relationship” are only words. The actions will speak, mirror them. I’ve gotten same line only to have them want a relationship with me, and end up with someone else too.
Bill Washinski
2023-07-03 12:39:21 +0000 UTCI like Mike’s approach of acknowledging, but moving on. Absolutely do not dig deeper there. It’s a waste of time. Whatever the red flag is, if you press it’s going to be told through a feelings based lens that doesn’t make her look bad. It’ll come back up, and she’ll tell on herself. She won’t realize she’s doing it, so it’s the unfiltered truth at that point. Save yourself the time, she’s got flaws and isn’t going to be perfect. But is it something that you can work with & through? Take debt, I dated a girl with terrible credit and I have an 831 score. But I once had lousy credit, and I even had a side hustle of credit repairing. I had her pay for my services, but fixed hers into 700s, and by “paying” we mixed fun with money as she paid for dates & wore the outfits I got her. Red Flags are meant to be warning signs, not your decision makers. Navigate them accordingly.
Bill Washinski
2023-07-03 12:35:06 +0000 UTCStory of a woman “not ready for a relationship”: She broke up with her then bf and said she was going to take a break from dating. 1 month later, spent time with someone from her social circle (classmate) and has been for over a year. She was already previously attracted to him, but “didn’t know” He was attracted to her. The break was so short that she didn’t share on social media for several months that they were together. And indeed, once the news broke, a few people she knew pointed it out. Sounds like she was attracted enough to the guy, that she became ready. Man did that guy have good timing and wow did he swoop in quick.
Mack T
2023-06-25 15:32:55 +0000 UTCIf someone says they’re not ready for relationship, believe them Fewer truer words have I heard today If you are high quality enough, then she would have been on board You aren’t going to convince her by trying harder If you take that info and run with it confidently, maybe you will at least inspire enough intrigue for her to look deeper into whom you are Maybe there’s a chance there But you’re never going to convince her verbally or through effort in that moment So true my guys
Peter
2023-06-05 11:12:33 +0000 UTCSome here might have consciously followed my progression from joining Patreon as a somewhat angry post player Incel to me now I’ve done a lot of growing and I think in the growth of being more compassionate and giving to myself while acknowledging the floors without vilifying them, I think I can bring that to the table with other people too I have standards for myself, and I have standards for others now, but I can see the humanity. It takes to get from one place to the next. This is one of those more practical than intellectual videos, and I sort of can’t wait to see myself. Try implement this in practice. I’m not going to lie, there’s still a lot of social awkwardness and me and not being as attuned to conversational nuances. I think I’m very much in my own headspace rather than in the moment in aware of what’s going on. Which is interesting because otherwise I pay extreme attention to details And I tend to overthink things, even though I don’t consider them overthinking Either getting back out, there is going to be a wonderful affirmation of the work I’ve done who is going to be one harsh club straight to the face to realise the years of work. I have done are simply useless. Even if I don’t have any contact right now, it is something I’m working on Interesting times
Peter
2023-06-05 10:28:24 +0000 UTC
