PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Will this information ever go mainstream?

That would be awesome if we actually learned this growing up. I grew up with a strong masculine father and a submissive mother but there was no guidance. It depends on the teacher. My father was always working so I didn’t have much time to learn from him until I was in my mid twenties and had my own life sorted out to an extent. That’s when he started valuing me and my time more. I have the view that every mother needs to be a nurturer(0-2years) and every father needs to be a teacher(2-18 years) without that, we are subject to the cultural climate.

https://youtu.be/8q7sVxMHwC0?t=1089 There are some female creators that stand up for men getting more known. The biggest is Just Pearly Things, but she seems to have drawn the ire of everyone who's minds we are trying to reach. while I agree with alot of what she says she does at times deserve the criticism for talking out of her as and acting like she's the expert when she has very little actual experience to base her opinions on. As well, though not really relevant to the topic, as a masculine man that desired to seek a more traditional femininity in a partner, Pearl has was too much masculine energy. Another men's rights activist that does have a somewhat masculine intensity to how she presents her videos but yet still strikes you as being more traditionally feminine is Roma Army, all the tattoos notwithstanding. https://www.youtube.com/@RomaArmyMensRights I'm sure I'm missing someone else. If there are anymore I might not know please share them here.

I want it to go mainstream. A little validation for the raw cards on was dealt wouldnt be the worst thing. That said i am fully aware pity parties result in nothing. And i am way past that point anyway. I know i will be subtly passing my knowledge along, while being carful to not be called a tate fanboy.

Peter

Oof big L for men 40 and up. Me being 40 i must admit. This does sting a little. I’m sure you don’t mean it that way, but being disqualified on a random qualifier like age Age, !feels! Unfair. (But its fleeting considering i look 10years younger and never been more shredded and fit, the 6 pack glistenes after a good workout , so i ought to not feel affected. Still it does a little bit) But ill be honest, Getting this far in life . Living the male experience. Rejection, performance pressure, disselected, rejected, manning up (probs dismissed, or not shared) It does weigh on your soul. i find the suboptimal male experience harder than a suboptimal female. Especially and particularly in dating the female experience is one of privilege and being the chooser, not beggar. It makes sense in a way men will be more bitter, they have been through more shit(men being humans too, it will leave its marks). Combined with the stigma of admitting weakness, female disgust (even if only imagined by the man) at a weak man, or weaknd man.m. I have to be fair and say. You just might be right. Personally, I can say, I had a pretty bitter and angry Streak. I dont know if i have overcome it. I think so. But the caution level is higher coz of al the shit ive gone through. Now, I am taking and have taken steps to heal that, and hopefully be lighter of spirit ( experiences I’ve been patched up, as to not show) to have all the benefits of experience of a difficult life lived. I wonder where does bitterness begin and end, and where does naïveté begin and end? Certain cynical, part of me wonders if you’re looking for younger men, is looking for undamaged, people or naivete aka your ability to form / influence/ mold/ that individual Regardless, the one will come with the the other (so some extent). And experience will inevitably come with caution/wisdom My take away is. Try heal your negative experiences as much as possible. Trauma is not sexy. And how will you aspire for accountability and work and accommodation. If you cant do that for yourself. And those that seek it. Well thats a match looking very unhealthy. There is always an inherent risk for having such high standards of pricing yourself out the market. We shall see when we reenter the market. There are a few things that need to be sorted out first 💪 good luck to us both. May we find fullment. 🖖

Peter

I'm 45 I don't even want a man in his 40's. In my experience older single men are more damaged and bitter than older single women. Yet, the extreme red pill community tell men it's all the older women who are damaged goods. I have kept my self-esteem and joy by being picky and having standards with people in general. I want this information to go mainstream. The good and the bad, I want to see people react to all of it. We had our chance with feminism, it's men's turn to talk. Were listening let's go gentlemen. If a podcaster can talk nonsense from the darkness of a room and a microphone, he/she should be brave enough to defend his ideas to the world. Alexander is helping young men and women as well. And one day the world will see him the way we all do in Patreon and Youtube.

One thing that will happen if this information goes main stream is that there will be push back and much of it will be debunked. Just like much of radical feminism is being debunked so too will the red pill be questioned and shown to be untrue. This is already starting to happen, and the push back is coming from men, which is very interesting. Already Dr. David Buss was on Joe Rogan debunking the theory that women have a dual mating strategy, which is the basis of Rollo Tomassi's book. A lot of the evolutionary psychology the red pill preaches does not hold up, and you are starting to see men call it out. I have noticed people are calling the red pill men's version of radical feminism, and I can see the similarities. For example, feminists mislead women when they tell them they can wait until they are 40 to have children and they won't have any problems, red pill tells men they can wait until they are 50 to find a wife who is of child bearing age and start a family, but the truth is unless you are Leonardo DiCaprio or have a lot of money and status this is highly unlikely to happen. Ask regular women in their 20s and 30s if they want a guy in his 50's or even 40's and they will say no. Going by the stats most women only date and marry men about 2 to 7 years older then themselves. So many other ways red pill and feminists are alike but it would take too long to cover here. Don't get me wrong, I also think red pill, and the manosphere in general, get many things right.

Boys and girls should be educated together. Let me explain. Two ways of teaching should be created. One like it is now and one tuned the way most boys learn. A student is placed in the one best for them. One may have 80% girls other 80% boys.

Domald

Not true and very mysoginistic.

The boy crisis is caused by feminism. Boys are castrated as men are by the CANCER of feminism. Boys are not more stupid than they were, female teachers are marking them down. This can be proved by the I.Q. of boys and men versus girls and women. Boys and girls need to be educated separately. Boys by men and girls by women. This was always the case in the past. And yes boys had sex with each other and with men before they got to have sex with women. OR they were sent to a prostitute to learn.

Women's needs were ALWAYS prioritized, even under "patriarchy" men were disposable. It was just that men knew better than women what women's needs were and are. This is being proven to be true. Women don't know what they want, AND they are not always conscious of their own sexual arousal. It was actually lesbians that were truly dissatisfied for obvious reasons, with the status quo.