PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): The dangers of the damsels in distress

FUCK BITCHES..... THey are not worth your need to help them out..... THINK about what they want and why they want it.... THEN stay stay STONG BROTHERS......

John McGuinness

"Finally a man that's honest." = abject sexism and misandry. You should be ashamed of yourself, but of course there's a snowflake's chance in hell of that every occurring. Sucks to be you.

MB

No no no... please do. Discretion is the greater part of valour. For the sake of mankind... reach up and smash that flush button.

MB

Another thread hijacked by tedious egotism. Me me me... so joyless and boring. That said... it's very pleasing to hear that the misandrist troll is flushing itself from this forum. The sooner the better.

MB

The stage2 (of 9) in the Victim-victimzer vampiric game: The damsel in disrtess (as the energy vampire) latching on.. The white knight (the provider of time-energy) coming at the rescue of "the helpless" Without healthy boundaries and awareness one can get drag into this trap. For Christine advice I can suggest 1 life hack to assess the situation : 1. Flip the gender of the person asking for help in your mind. 2. Notice how you would respond to that situation then, 3. Notice the red flags in YOUR behavior aswell as hers/his. The victim-victimizer energy draining game plays only if 2 parties participate. Doesn't matter if your female or male. Fundamentally it is about energy predation and abdication. Learn when to disconnect and when to engage in assistance. Learning to be balanced in the way we share our life force is essential for the fulfillment of our path. The creation work with a balance between giving and receiving.. violate this principle and you become energy vampire or prey.

ATH-YF

@Joseph Have you ever had a birth chart reading by a traditional astrologer by the way? It’s not like pop astrology or Sun Sign generalities in newspapers. Everyone’s birth chart is unique. How much do you know about traditional astrology - which was basically exclusively studied by men btw - to say so confidently that ‘you’re not that kind of guy’? And what exactly ‘kind’ of guy is that? An open-minded one? A curious one?

RhodiumMaiden

@Joseph What a shame - I would be interested to see your chart. I’m not nearly advanced enough an astrologer to determine your placements, particularly solely from the interactions that we’ve had via text online. I do have better than chance prediction with people I’ve seen on video who reveal a good deal about themselves & their lives though, & even better IRL, but without the ability to see the chart and confirm or negate my suspicions, it’s not useful for me to speculate.

RhodiumMaiden

😏 I suspect that means something. Im curious as to what you mean. Im open for all feedback. 🙏 positive, as negative. Tnx in advance

Peter

@RhodiumMaiden - To paraphrase a popular Hollywood aphorism: "I'm not that kind of a guy". 😉 I thought that you'd read Peter just from his communications here on Patreon.

Joseph Omega

@Joseph Sure, DM me. I’ll need your birth date, exact place (or city within 1hr drive as long as it’s not a mountainous area), & exact time to minute (or as close as you can get - it’s often on birth certificates). Moms often remember the time of birth with decent accuracy.

RhodiumMaiden

@E C - Of course I never said (nor implied) that you were a "burden" -- I explicitly went out of my way to say the OPPOSITE remember? No need to TRIGGER my validation. Also, I think I understand your need to anthropomorphize your late pet, but remember you ARE a HUMAN BEING, so you must now learn to trust your fellow primates. Finally, REGULAR vulnerability is certainly not a "burden" anyway -- at least not to a NORMAL man: We are genetically DESIGNED to desire and respond to this trait in women. Remember that VULNERABILITY is a POSTURE and a source of feminine strength, while DEPENDENCY (in the context of co-dependency) is a LIABILITY and a source of weakness, AND is the "burden" you seem to fear. Learn to tell the difference.

Joseph Omega

@E C - The world probably needs ALL kinds for balance, but Feminism is an ideology based upon a flawed premise. Men and women were DESIGNED to be "pick-me's" of each other. AND ... you are not your mom.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Don't accept your fate. "Do not go gentle into that good night".

Joseph Omega

@E C - Perhaps therein lies your problem: The world was NEVER intended to be a "safe place". This Matriarchal view has damaged our expectations of life. "There is nothing to fear but fear itself." Try a few tiny baby-steps of "adorable" with someone you trust to build your muscles of vulnerability.

Joseph Omega

@E C - To practice "adorable", you first need to recognize AND ACCEPT the need. As long as you hate and fear "pick me's" you will not be able to let go and let your inner vulnerable child out. EMBRACE YOUR GOD-GIVEN NEOTENY.

Joseph Omega

@E C - I wish you well. 🙏

Joseph Omega

@E C - So you DO have a sense of humor. Maybe you should smile more often.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Not all women feel targeted. Have you practiced being "adorable" as I'd suggested?

Joseph Omega

@E C - "I only lived there ages 14 to 19" But didn't you describe yourself as "Latina", and that Spanish was your first language? Where is "there"?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Just wondering. You seem to perpetually complain about men a lot -- in a man's space. That's why I also asked about your possible "misandry". But a "paying troll" WOULD be an odd occurrence.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Has estado en Patreon durante mucho tiempo y siempre has recibido el mismo antagonismo. ¿Alguien te ha acusado alguna vez de ser un troll?

Joseph Omega

@E C - ¿Quién dijo que sí? Aren't you supposed to use the inverted quesion marks at the beginning of a sentence?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Why begrudge me the expression of the love of MY native tongue, when YOU love YOURS also?

Joseph Omega

@E C - That is a STRANGE position for a woman to hold: I THOUGHT you guys were all eager for men to "bear their souls" to you?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Ah. Is that compromise and the recognition of complementarity that I hear at last?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Ironically, nice usage of the word "tad", BTW. 😊 PS. I LOVE the English language -- don't YOU love the Spanish language?

Joseph Omega

@RhodiumMaiden - Can you read me please?

Joseph Omega

@E C - "Men desire women on a sexual level." Duh-uh: Men LOVE women more than they love men. "Bromances" is one of those rediculously effeminized expressions that could only develop in a decadent "Western" context of runaway "gender equality" (as opposed to "gender equivalency").

Joseph Omega

@E C - "That's why men and women should have separate spaces." Uh, you mean like THIS one? 🤷‍♂️

Joseph Omega

@Tord Petterson - I know, I know, but I can't help but post yet again "It's Not about The Nail": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg Is it even POSSIBLE to TEACH against what may well be an evolutionary adaptation?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Is this SUCH a secret or novel idea? After all, men are, by definition, "pick me's" -- they do not hide this. What MAY be a closely held secret (especially among Feminists) is that women (as proven by the multi-billion dollar fashion, cosmetics, cosmetic surgery and OnlyFans industries) are ALSO effectively "pick-me", but are in denial of this for some reason, likely spread through the "social contagion" to which they are uniquely susceptable. Old news.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Are there no fancy words in Spanish? 💁‍♂️

Joseph Omega

@E C - It seems pretty obvious to me why there would be so many successful women in the red pill community: Men love women more than they love men.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Responsibly and accountability (where the "buck stops").

Joseph Omega

@E C - Men may not be natural caregivers, but women may not be natural providers, protectors or buck-stoppers. Nature's balance is not always straightforward.

Joseph Omega

A low quality woman wants a husband. A high quality woman wants to be a wife. A high quality woman will give you support and encouragement; and will be there for you when you fall down.

Eric Linden

@Tord I’m not blaming it. I’m acknowledging it. And you have a Cap Sun Peter! :) It’s just in very early Cap. No fire = no Sag.

RhodiumMaiden

The problem is that, while there are more women’s spaces than ever, most men’s spaces have been given up or taken over by women. Rotary, Lions, Kiwanis, the Boy Scouts are all now for both men and women. Even the local men’s bowling league has women or is run by women.

Eric Linden

Not. YouTube has issues and Patreon has other issues. AG has one of the best Patreon sites. He’s done it in a way that adds real value. Most other creators either post here only once a month, only post audio only versions of YouTube videos, or post boring content. And they charge more than $7. We get our money’s worth on AG Patreon.

Eric Linden

I only said rm has good memory and she said i have a pisces moon. I didn’t say i agree, nor did i say i disagree… Im diplomatic that way That can be dissapointing not pushing back But wisdom is whispering. Some battles are not worth it. Can only be lost because engaging it at all. Orion taraban recently had a short talk on pride and ego. Its relevant here maybe?

Peter

To be fair: There is a online sub-group in the manosphere that basically blames women for all their struggles. But yes, the mainstream is very much the opposite.

Hermann

This facts must be even the main reason for men to have as a default regarding doctors and medicine people: "they are a haux, they are just charlantans".

Tord Pettersson

Patreon app is totally worthless. YouTube you can see which videos you seen and can continue where paused and other good things. Patreon app does not.

Tord Pettersson

Not you blame Astrology please.

Tord Pettersson

These two topics of self-improvement and self reflection should be mandatory in school curriculum.

Tord Pettersson

That analogy of "airing of you dirty laundry to the world" is a must to have when hold low-value women accountability for their dark-driven follies.

Tord Pettersson

The reason women are repelled by weakness goes back to their hypergamy. It is the lifetime curse of both men and women. Men are cursed with the Coolidge Effect, but for most of us it doesn’t cause any strain on our long term relationships. Men learn to control their emotions. We are more even keeled. We actually become emotionally responsible for women. It is a fallacy that women are more mature than men.

Eric Linden

Women are attracted to strength, and repelled by weakness. Men are the opposite. They are repelled by the strong independent woman. They want a hot woman, yes, but they also love a fixer-upper.

Eric Linden

I find it difficult to sit and listen to people who only deal with their problems by feeling sorry for themselves. It blocks effective action.

Mark Bryski

You have a remarkable memory 😏 1 had to look back at the natal chart you once did. Well described it to me… you said i had pisces in my moon. Capicorn/sagitarius in my sun. And water heavy. No fire. One air. 🤷‍♀️

Peter

Same, I’m way too forgiving. It’s a Pisces thing.

RhodiumMaiden

I can really relate to CGS re: talking to other women about self-reflection & self- improvement. Even with my very best female friends, I can’t talk about these things. Either they just ignore any advice or they completely clam up or they get very offended. It is very, very frustrating.

RhodiumMaiden

I must add, in co-ed group settings that involve changing oneself internally, there is always more compassion for women over men. I noticed this in both recovery groups and parent skills development groups. These experiences have turned me into a big advocate for men only groups when it comes to personal development. When I am focusing on myself, I don’t need to hear complaints about toxic masculinity or witness wives being condescending to their husbands. I am also not interested in getting hooked into arguments over normalized bigotry against men. In other words, I don't want to listen to a woman who is trying to bait men into arguments.

Mark Bryski

“You can not change society. But, you can change your situation…” 100%. It started with what I read and watched. Then it evolved into my relationships. Peace and serenity is the first prize. A new and improved version of me is the second prize. New relationships with quality people is the third prize. New paths in life is the final prize. At the start, it can be a lonely journey. Being able to share it with other people who can relate to it makes a big difference because you can safely externalize what you are feeling. This region between letting go and reaching the prizes is what I call “in between land”. The people you have sitting at your table when you are in this zone makes a world of difference. Be honest. Be wise. Be ruthless.

Mark Bryski

Recognising if someone actually wants to act to improve their situation, or actually does not want that…. but has to (and begrudgingly, needs a bailout. Leaving them to comfortably not address the actual issue) BEFORE you offer help. Before getting in too deep… Has been a huge struggle of mine. -Hey dude can you help me -Sure! -Can you please help -Sure. Life happens we all need help sometimes -Can you help me -Same thing? Uhhh i guess but i hope you are fixing it -Sure just need a bailout -Can you help me? -Big man ting yeah! Brav its not looking good! Again? Brav… really… i think you’re taking the piss. But fine -Can you help me -What have you done to remedy the situation? -*doges accountability * Brav respectfully i don’t see it … i can’t.. i wont… -But PLEASE pretty please i promise -Ok last time! -🙏 thanks , touvare so good i appreciate it -Can you help me? -Ok gtfoh !!! Im pissed now By this time im in pretty deep That last line needs to be right at the top. Right after asking them what they are actually doing planning to do to remedy the root cause of the problem

Peter

16:45 „ women That stuck It out, a little too Long with the Wrong Kind of Guy“ Was his name by any chance , Tyrone or chad? Unfortunately, probably unintentionally another example of unhealthy amount of effort being put in to keep the asshole

Peter

Halfway through a this was a roller coaster! 🎢

Peter

Clark S Barrow

Don’t get old. Don’t get sick. Don’t end up in the hospital. This is one shit test men need to do on women early on and often. It’s happened to me. Only a high quality woman will be there for you when the chips are down.

Eric Linden