Yes, the straights get overly pushy about the queer people they meet. They could only know a couple online and the most FREQUENT question that they ask is "who's top and who's bottom?" Like????? Do you go around asking your straight friends about their preferred sexual positions!?!? Whyyyyy are they so weird!?!?
Nyssa Rawther 🍉
2024-08-09 13:43:14 +0000 UTC
Yeah I love the vibes that Mr Farouk & Mr Ajayi have had the past few episodes. Love to see it blossom but sad that neither of them look happy the next morning.
Tao def has that cool artsy vibe going, but out of everyone, I'd LOVE Charlie's wardrobe. I adore his grandpa jumpers SO much. I even love all the hoodies he keeps stealing from Nick LOL. His green jumper at the beginning of this episode was so lovely.
As for me, I'd rather let Nick answer this because TECHNICALLY he only came out to the people present at the party. He told them he didn't mind them telling others but he hasn't "officially" come out on social media. And, even after he's come out on SM, I'd still let him answer if it's a comment on his post.
I think Charlie's just worried about the fallout from people knowing because not everyone is gonna find it "cute".
Nyssa Rawther 🍉
2024-08-09 13:41:08 +0000 UTC
Btw, I loved your message at the end. One thing I always hated is how a lot of straight people act around gay people, like finding out their sexuality or what they do in their private lives is some kind of game to them. A lot of non-queer people are very invasive with the questions and comments and it's extremely uncomfortable, I had to go through the same thing with my family and friends. It was so bad, I had to cut a lot of them out of my life.
I just find it strange because so many straight people always say that gay people force their sexualities onto them, but they're constantly trying to push people out the closet when gay people don't actually come out. It's so weird. Sorry, rant over now lol. But great reaction!!
Chasity Fortson
2024-06-01 04:09:50 +0000 UTC
As a queer person myself, I would wait for Nick to make that decision if I was Charlie or in that situation. I know Nick already came out to some people at the party, but I would still wait for Nick to want to say something himself to other people like the people in the comments.
He only came out to the people at the party. To everyone else that was on the trip but not at the party, it could've just been a rumor they heard. People should have their own moments to come out, and for others to respect that and not out someone just because other people believe they're gay if that makes sense.